Jackobus
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So guys, I still trying to figure my exact type and I wanted to ask you something...
My ISFJ friend, today, supported me about a romantic interest I think I'm starting to develop: basically, I couldn't figure out the emotions I, unconsciounsly, am starting to develop in regards a certain romantic circumstance; First of all, I made my friend read the WA chat with this girl and he said "Man, she's definitely flirting with you" and I completely fell from the clouds, my reaction was a quite interdicted "AH. For real? Do you think we are flirting? I was just being honest on what I think about her..." and he said "I can definitely see you are insecure about this situation, is something not typical of you, since you always seem so sure of yourself; It's definitely a relatable side, it happens to all humans when they start to develop feelings for someone"; Secondly, he helped me a lot to vent my emotional side out, since I'm generally a quite analytic and brainiac guy, even with emotions, but,after talking about them, I felt relieved but completely drained of energies and started to analyze what came out in our discussion a lot...
Do you think this could be, somehow, related to low feeling functions (or a specific enneagram preference) ?
Does this happens to other thinkers type?
Thanks a lot!
My ISFJ friend, today, supported me about a romantic interest I think I'm starting to develop: basically, I couldn't figure out the emotions I, unconsciounsly, am starting to develop in regards a certain romantic circumstance; First of all, I made my friend read the WA chat with this girl and he said "Man, she's definitely flirting with you" and I completely fell from the clouds, my reaction was a quite interdicted "AH. For real? Do you think we are flirting? I was just being honest on what I think about her..." and he said "I can definitely see you are insecure about this situation, is something not typical of you, since you always seem so sure of yourself; It's definitely a relatable side, it happens to all humans when they start to develop feelings for someone"; Secondly, he helped me a lot to vent my emotional side out, since I'm generally a quite analytic and brainiac guy, even with emotions, but,after talking about them, I felt relieved but completely drained of energies and started to analyze what came out in our discussion a lot...
Do you think this could be, somehow, related to low feeling functions (or a specific enneagram preference) ?
Does this happens to other thinkers type?
Thanks a lot!