[ISFP] Once in love, I'd like to understand...

[RedAmazoneFriendZone]

Hello you ISFP :hi:


I really need to understand how the ISFP behaves and feels when in love.


I know most ISFP are honest but actually I'm wondering :

_ In which situation do you lie to your partner ? In this case do you feel guilty or do you avoid discomfort of all sorts ?

_ When you don't receive any news from your partner, do you feel insecure or rationalise ?

_ What is your way for showing you care for the person ?

_ Do you often feel you trust yourself ?

_ Can you be manipulative ? Which way ?


Merci

 

[Lia_kat]

Hello !

- I tend to keep a lot of feelings to myself.. sometimes I lie to my partner if I want to avoid certain conversations.. If he asks "Are you ok?" or "Something wrong?", I tell him I'm fine.. especially if I know it could possibly start an argument. I don't feel guilty, I just don't like to be asked to divulge my feelings if I don't feel it's ok at that moment or if I'm still processing what's going on. Other than that, I'm very open and honest with him with everything else.

-If I don't receive any news, I get worried but rationalize... because we are always in touch. Insecurity does not really come up at all and I think it's because we trust each other immensely.

-The way I show I care is with playfulness, silliness, and little displays of affection.. hugs, cuddling, etc. Sometimes I also buy random gifts or make art as a way to let him know he's always on my mind. Another way is by caring for his health and what he eats, doctor's appointments, etc.

-I definitely trust myself but I can make decisions on impulse or because "I feel like it".. My husband (ENFJ) is good at making step back and think for a second. I trust myself a little too much I guess. LOL

-Manipulative.. hmm.. Not sure on that one. I'm sure at times I can be if I really want something or someone needs convincing but I've never been actually "aware" of it or seen myself do it.. Does that make sense?