[ISFP] How to halp a ISFP

[Kaitie]

I met this ISFP girl who I really like, but it is really hard to help her. She has really low self esteem, I think. She is way smarter than me in pretty much every area, aside from the dumb things that us INTJs can do. (math, logic, organization, planning, narcissism) She doesn’t see any good qualities about herself though. She gets really upset anytime I compliment her, as if it is an insult.
She really likes talking about MBTI, but I'm too logical to see her point of view. I really try though. I feel a connection between us.
What I am basically trying to say is, as ISFPs, how would you want someone like me to help you?

 

[Sunny Ghost]

Help her with her esteem?

 

[Kaitie]

Help her with her esteem?

Yes. But what I am asking is what kind of help is useful for ISFP.

 

[Sunny Ghost]

Yes. But what I am asking is what kind of help is useful for ISFP.

I meant, are you asking how you can help an ISFP with their self esteem.

Genuine compliments and praise. Figure out her strong points, and have her help you in the realms she is strongest in.

 

[chubber]

What happened to this thread?

 

[wolfy]

What happened to this thread?

It died. Help an isfp? Give some resources and hope she gets into it.

 

[Sunny Ghost]

Sometimes I worry I'm a thread killer. I think it's because I responded.

 

[chubber]

Sometimes I worry I'm a thread killer. I think it's because I responded.

 

[WorldSocionics]

This looks like a job for Socionics!

Try this out on the other subforum.