StarFollowed
Stardust
- Joined
- Jul 12, 2016
- Messages
- 79
- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 4w3
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
I’ve been married for a month to my hubby (We met on PerC, tee-hee ![Fairy :fairy: :fairy:](/data/vbsmilies/fairysmile[1].gif)
![Fairy :fairy: :fairy:](/data/vbsmilies/fairysmile[1].gif)
) things are pretty great between us. <3
We didn’t live together before getting married, so the only thing I’m still having trouble adjusting with is that he’s not as openly affectionate as I am—I’m the one who is likely to initiate things often, and he says that sometimes he feels pushed when I initiate when I’m not trying to push him at all. In fact, when he told me he feels pushed to do things at times, I have started to give him space and time to feel more comfortable initiating affection, but he just doesn’t as much as I’d like. I’ve explained this to him, and he understands, so finding the middle ground has been a bit harder for us, and I find myself talking about this more often because I want to know how he’s feeling. It’s the only thing thats still a challenge for us prior and after marriage.
Is this common for ISTJs?
![Fairy :fairy: :fairy:](/data/vbsmilies/fairysmile[1].gif)
![Fairy :fairy: :fairy:](/data/vbsmilies/fairysmile[1].gif)
![Fairy :fairy: :fairy:](/data/vbsmilies/fairysmile[1].gif)
We didn’t live together before getting married, so the only thing I’m still having trouble adjusting with is that he’s not as openly affectionate as I am—I’m the one who is likely to initiate things often, and he says that sometimes he feels pushed when I initiate when I’m not trying to push him at all. In fact, when he told me he feels pushed to do things at times, I have started to give him space and time to feel more comfortable initiating affection, but he just doesn’t as much as I’d like. I’ve explained this to him, and he understands, so finding the middle ground has been a bit harder for us, and I find myself talking about this more often because I want to know how he’s feeling. It’s the only thing thats still a challenge for us prior and after marriage.
Is this common for ISTJs?