Lead Guitar Wankery
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What is your experience with developing Fe or having Fe become more important/noticeable in your life?
Curious about what inspired that question?
Well, being fe auxiliary but waffling to the point where I sometimes think it might be lower in my stack (it's certainly not inferior though nor could it be) I may give a bit of my two cents. I would say fe can be developed by trying to put yourself in the shoes of other people but if this instinct comes naturally, try not to get it out of control. Out of control fe can be a pretty scary thing. Kind of try to balance the logic with the human element/the trying to blend into the environment via emotions. Or it doesn't always exclusively involve humans but certainly does shape how one views the world, and can have a chameleonic affect when too strong.
With me, I have had trouble connecting with people when I was younger and understanding them didn't always come naturally to me but I've always been a worrier. I still have some trouble connecting to an extent but it's a work in progress. However, being very concerned about animals came more naturally than being concerned about humans. I know if it's inferior, it would be harder to challenge the fe but everyone has thinking as well as feeling functions so, just keep practicing but don't make yourself fe too much.
How can i understand my Fe ? If im 100% more extreme than that ... I sealed my soul and i throw the key so nobody can actually find it.
What is your experience with developing Fe or having Fe become more important/noticeable in your life?
If someone has fe in their stack or at least main stack of 4, I think they have the potential to access it. If it isn't dominant, than it's the glue that's holding their stack together if it's the inferior. If it's not their first or second function though, it's more of a challenge to channel. Even having it as my second function, I have learned to better use it as I've gotten older but when I was younger, I had a lot of trouble controlling it. It's ever present but hard to turn off.
The more you use Fe, the more your soul has been claimed and no longer yours.
USER BEWARE
The more you use Fe, the more your soul has been claimed and no longer yours.
USER BEWARE
The more you use Fe, the more your soul has been claimed and no longer yours.
USER BEWARE
Is that really Fe, though, or are you emulating it using your preferred functions?I think that I have a fairly healthy Fe for someone of my type, honestly, more healthy than a lot of "F" types I know who use it in extreme abundance without understanding.
I guess I would say that I do understand it but it is not a priority.
That's Ne/Si, though. Gauging what others want and internalizing the experience for future use. For it to be Fe, you have to ground the outlook from a collective vantage point.Do things for people, then notice the reaction, and try to sort of "grasp" that feeling. Imagine why they might feel that way. Then, you actually see what is meant by taking on other people's feelings as your own.