I wish that I could say I wan't sensitive or highly emotional, but for the most part I am.
What is really different for me is that I find the things I am sensitive about vs other people tend to be different alot of the time. And the only thing that I can chalk that up to is the way I intuitively perceive. So the most crude comment may not have any affect because I intuitiely know where its coming from or what it means, but more of a passive agressive, subtle comment can REALLY piss me off! INFACT, passive aggressive behavior irritates me more than almost anything else. If you have something to say, fucking say it. Quit being a coward. Get it out there so it can be delt with and moved on from. Oh I can't even begin to convey how much I despise passive aggressive people.. I wonder how common that is for ENFP's? It's just inauthentic! Horribley inauthentic! I can understand some of this going on with business relations, things that you don't have a choice in.. but when it comes to my personal relations I loathe people who act passive agressive towards me or struggle with confrontation. I don't really like confrontation either, especially if I'm going up against someone much colder than me.. but I just see it as totally fucking neccissary at times! And I feel like as an ENFP, i can read peoples emotional states pretty well. And i can tell if something is bothering someone, or they are mad at me, whatever. Hell, I'll even initiate resolving it.. I'll ask one over and over if they are upset, let them know they can talk to me, its better to get things off your chest than let it fester.. I will STILL have people claim nothing is up, only to go behind my back and bitch about me to a different friend or family member! This shit drives me up a wall. I find it just sooo disguistingly cowardice! Why, I ask you? Why do people do this?
I also shift perspectives insanely fast. Too fast. I tend to quickly rationalize not the act thats made me upset, but how much of a waste it is for me to be upset, how uncomfortable it is, and how unnecissary it is. This is a blessing and a curse because I have a very hard time holding a grudge against people, even when some kind of consequence to their action is really deserved. But i feel like they do have a consequence, because I distance myself. I rarely seek to discinpline or control people, but if they hurt me they usually just get pushed away. Problem solved. Let them go be nasty to someone else.