sculpting
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I can't fake emotions. I can't fake cry. Like marm when I waited tables I was pleasent. I would sometimes try and force happiness, but that faked expression is very draining-it isn't real.
But when happy I am happy, when sad - am sad. I know these emotions may be tumultous at times-but there is something very innately "wrong" about using emotions to gain for me.
Instead I will be overly logical and detached and make requests at arms length.
Now do I try and make others happy? Somedays I just MAKE others happy by being around them. I smile and say crazy zany things to make them laugh and then the happiness sort of becomes addictive.
But not with the endgoal of gain although maybe by making them happier they become better team players?
But when happy I am happy, when sad - am sad. I know these emotions may be tumultous at times-but there is something very innately "wrong" about using emotions to gain for me.
Instead I will be overly logical and detached and make requests at arms length.
Now do I try and make others happy? Somedays I just MAKE others happy by being around them. I smile and say crazy zany things to make them laugh and then the happiness sort of becomes addictive.
But not with the endgoal of gain although maybe by making them happier they become better team players?