Thessaly
I drink your milkshake.
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- Jun 5, 2009
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- 3w4
I actually agree with this. He may also be trying to figure the whole thing out. You also didn't express exactly what this "reunion" was. Was it just friends? If so he could have been expecting you to be "over" whatever it was he brought up. Especially if you broke up with him. (I don't know)
I usually have to discuss stuff over and over until I "get" it, so my guess was some of it he is still trying to figure out. And an INFP/ENFP relationship (I think) has a lot of "figuring stuff out" so he might automatically default to that.
My guess is that you can label a lot of ENFP relationship stuff as "they are immature" because we are very much out there. We usually don't hide the feelings/questionings we have (like many other types do) so we look more immature. It's too easy of a diagnosis, especially for an ENFP.
Reunion had no romantic pretense. I believe we mutually ended things, although explicitly I was the one to end it. We're not platonic friends as we do have quite a bit of chemistry still, but I have no romantic feelings for him.
I think my aloof introverted personality confuses him a bit. We're both moody, but he's a lot more explicit why. I keep things to myself and can appear a bit schizo from the outside I suppose.
I don't think that was an easy diagnose though.
/shrug