Yeah I posted mine and then realized pretty much any type could be that as long as the person is mature, somewhat introspective, and balanced.
Yes, exactly.
I actually think my greatest concern could be over the F/T balance. On one hand, I'd like (even need) the guy to be reasonably emotionally aware and certainly to view my feelings as valid and important, and to put forth great effort to understand me. I'm not high-maintenance at all as long as you treat me nice and try to understand.
On the other hand, no emo crybabies who are consumed with their own feelings, please. So that's where I'd probably want him to be most balanced. And quite honestly, it often seems very difficult to find that balance.
I do think that some T guys can do quite well in that regard if they put forth the effort to be understanding. They may not fully empathize with a lot of deep and difficult feelings, but they can be good at "If I do a+b, my woman will be happy and feel loved and cared for. If I do c+d, on the other hand, she is unhappy and feels neglected and unloved. So, because a+b is reasonable and makes her happy, I'd better do that as much as possible."
I could live with that.
I know that I'm extremely devoted in a relationship so I would really just need someone who would treat me well, and help me to communicate instead of clamming up and feeling resentful (that's when I can get nasty), and then make an effort to understand what I am communicating.