From the kinds of things like this I always hear about INTJ's, it proves that NT is Choleric and Keirsey was mistaken about NT being Phlegmatic. (The ENTJ also sounds like this, while in the NTP's, the Choleric is tempered by the role-informative Interaction Styles of the more open ended [N]P preference. Yet the dogged determination still does surface).
Choleric is the temperament most associated with aggression. Then you also have the Choleric Interaction Style groups: EST and ENJ. So these types also can be pretty aggressive. With other types, aggression will be more slower or reactive.
uh, where are you always hearing stuff about INTJs?
In NF forums, would be my guess.
INTJs are mean
Courtesy of jennifer some time last year:
I get the descriptions from posts like that, as well as from profiles.
Since the INTJ is introverted, they will not be as aggressive as an extraverted TJ. But it's still there.
With the INFP example given, it was reactive as I said, in contrast to the normal pacifism.
(Is the point of the OP who is EVER aggressive; or normally? The key phrase I was focusing on was "I'm very focused on reaching my goals, in every arena. Many have called my mindset relentless and aggressive.")
I think ENFP females can at times be *incorrectly* perceived as being aggressive, (usually by men), because we tend to be highly opinionated, outspoken women.
My sister is an ESTJ and she is the most aggressive person I know, hands down. :horor:
I'm not particularly aggressive, I rarely remember being called such.