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I'm ENTP and I like ENFPs. The people are the problem not the type itself.
If she actually were ENTP for a moment she would have asked herself
1) Is it ok to blame a type because on 1 person? does it make sense?
2) Is that girl ENFP? I noticed that whem most people type others, they think they're Ns. She might as well been ESFP.
Which would make more sense to annoy you.
Since you have:
NiTeFiSe
And she has
SeFiTeNi
I love ENTPs. Every best friend I have had has been an ENTP. But what you see as the two types age is that we do not understand across the Fi-Ti very well. Then as our tert functions grow in we both act in knee jerk ways to offend one another over and over again with the tert functions. As we "mature" it actually can make things worse, because the ENFP uses more Te-thus bluntly stating things in a way that is obnoxious to Ti, while the ENTP uses more Fe, thus is offended by the ENFP's use of Fi. So yeah, there are patterns that are repeatable. We can make good friends but there will be strife at times...I think this was more obvious on the forum lat year when there were a bunch of ENTPs here constantly engaging a bunch of ENFPs though.