Not ESFP; a brief lecture on Fe vs Fi
Forgetting superimposed preferences for a moment, typing only by functions:
The essence and definition of Fe, he's the INTP's cordial, compatible Fe dual, the ESFJ.
For Fi instead, see examples like, Brad Pitt, Ryan Gosling, Jennifer Lawrence
commonly and accurately typed ESFP, Johnny Depp, Kurt Cobain, etc, a focus on the
independent moral and emotional stance. Not this Fe guy like Obama, a focus on the
conduct and feelings of external relationships and cooperative synergy (Fe.) Just watch Titanic or most of his films. An interpersonal passion by means of surface expression, relational melding by means of momentary values, as a more romantically inclined ESFJ he is what Fe is all about.
Accurate-typed INTP duals to match like
Meryl Streep and
Christian Bale you can see their Fe inferior match clearly. Videos are best. A warm Fe spirit like this brightens up an INTP's day irl.