countrygirl
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Oh yes, Countrygirl. I think this is why the INFP I dated turned out to be my first and only love thus far in life.I'm still young, so I'm hoping I'll eventually love again. But... I don't even know of any prospects.
Every guy I know or have met is just too involved in the social networks. And like I mentioned earlier, the last time I dated an extrovert... he had absolute no concept or understanding of the fact that I NEED MY SPACE, OR I AM GOING TO PUNCH YOU!! :workout: It turned out very ugly in the end. I began lashing out at him. But with the INFP ex, we dated for four years. We both allowed each other plenty of space, while still being able to give the other the support and care and love we each needed. There was never any question or doubt of love. And we both loved being able to go on the occasional adventure here and there. However, I had the tendency to be a bit more social and impulsive than him. That's where we often would clash.
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Maybe I need to find myself a nice ISTP... However, I'd worry he'd be too concrete and unimaginative. Which extroverted types also value independence or alone time? Any? I do gush over those introverted boys...![]()
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Of all the extroverts out there, I think the ENFJ are the types that need some alone time. Just as us ISFP, out of all the introverts types, need some socialization.
EDIT: I just wanted to add that according to this personality site ENFJ and ISFP are a good fit. However, I think it takes more than just MBTI to determine who is a good fit.