Udog
Seriously Delirious
- Joined
- Aug 2, 2008
- Messages
- 5,290
- MBTI Type
- INfp
- Enneagram
- 9w1
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/sx
Here are my questions:
1. If I stay close to him, as a friend, will I hurt/hinder him or help him? Will it put me in any line of fire?
That's a very personal question that only he can answer. Right now, it seems like he wants to try the friendship thing. He may or may not need to change that later, but that's his responsibility to tell you.
2. After he "fixes" himself, does it seem possible that he'd come back to me? He's convinced himself that I'm too good for him, that I'm perfect. Will he still want to be with me?
Yes, it's possible, but certainly not guaranteed.
A) He needs to fix himself, and some people never fully succeed.
B) Neither you nor him will know where his mind will be when he does fix himself. He may discover he needs something else out of relationships, or he may slap himself in the forehead for letting you go. Tossing a coin up in the air is as good as any way to try and predict this.
It will probably be best for you to move on when you are emotionally ready to. No need to rush. If it's meant to be between you two, you both will very likely be drawn back to each other in the future.