Hapyniss
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That's cool, how do you separate the text from my post and respond individually?
When you suppress your emotions and shun intimacy, the only people whose emotions are intense enough to break through are those who are emotionally unstable. By suppressing yourself, you unknowingly self-select for others who overexpress themselves. These men tend to get particularly hooked on these over-emotional women because it allows them to experience their own emotions vicariously through the drama of the woman they’re with.
I believe that I've experienced this with one other INTJ relationship when I was younger. In social situations it seemed more so. Of course, I was wildly more dramatic and in a negative way when I was younger.
That bad, huh? Lol.
Oh yes! That's how I interpreted it at the time. It was a huge hurt in my heart. He later explained it differently, but it was an awful experience. I suppose I'm grateful now though as it spurred a fever to become the best kisser ever!
Honestly, I'd be happy to set you up with some primers on functions if it would help.
That would be wonderful, thank you. I have a hard time understanding the functions even for my own type. Anything that helps break it down in the simplest of terms, for now, will be helpful. I may be off and running once I can mentally and intellectually make a connection with the information.
When you suppress your emotions and shun intimacy, the only people whose emotions are intense enough to break through are those who are emotionally unstable. By suppressing yourself, you unknowingly self-select for others who overexpress themselves. These men tend to get particularly hooked on these over-emotional women because it allows them to experience their own emotions vicariously through the drama of the woman they’re with.
I believe that I've experienced this with one other INTJ relationship when I was younger. In social situations it seemed more so. Of course, I was wildly more dramatic and in a negative way when I was younger.
That bad, huh? Lol.
Oh yes! That's how I interpreted it at the time. It was a huge hurt in my heart. He later explained it differently, but it was an awful experience. I suppose I'm grateful now though as it spurred a fever to become the best kisser ever!
Honestly, I'd be happy to set you up with some primers on functions if it would help.
That would be wonderful, thank you. I have a hard time understanding the functions even for my own type. Anything that helps break it down in the simplest of terms, for now, will be helpful. I may be off and running once I can mentally and intellectually make a connection with the information.