Redbone
Orisha
- Joined
- Apr 27, 2010
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 9w8
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
I know it is not easy- and I'm sure there is A LOT of Fi soul searching you need to do to figure out what YOUR values are since someone else's values were pummelled into your head- no fault of your own.
You can do this.
AzulEyes is right.
It's going to take some time to sort this all out. Oh wait...pretty much what Qlip said. I'd add, be patient with yourself. It can be hard not to rush through this process in order to get rid of the discomfort but don't give into that temptation.
You really do have everything you need already inside you to work this all out. Hold onto that fact and never let go of it.