Jaguar
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I think what I relate to most about 2w1 is the fears. Not being valued/needed, not being competent or able to contribute.
TWOS want to be liked, try to meet the needs of others, and attempt to orchestrate the people and events in their lives.
BASIC CONCERN: Am I needed? Will others like me?
THREES organize their lives to achieve specific goals and to appear successful in order to gain the respect and admiration of others.
BASIC CONCERN: How can I gain the respect and esteem of others?
Go here:
http://theenneagraminbusiness.com/the-enneagram/find-your-enneagram-style/
Click on the enneagram symbol, then click on enneagram style differentiators.
Also, grab a copy of Jerome Wagner's book. It may clarify a lot for you.
Nine Lenses on the World: the Enneagram Perspective: Jerome Peter Wagner: 9780982762004: Amazon.com: Books