No problem with that. I’ll give someone every opportunity to have their say to their satisfaction. I just don’t want to be tuned out or shushed when it’s my turn to speak.
These days, I just handle these things with boundaries.
That is, I’ve been in charge of lots of people in the past, and over time I’ve found it too difficult to crawl up in each one of their heads and figure out what’s going on or anticipate what their various pet peeves might be.
So I just give them a fair hearing and then try to communicate back. If they’re moody and react negatively, that’s fine. I respect their right to their emotions, and I don’t hold it against them if communications didn’t work at that moment. We can always try again later.
As I get older, I just find it easier to stick to the big concepts of equity, mutual respect, and observation of personal boundaries. I don’t worry about sussing out their personality type to figure out how I might deal with their personal idiosyncrasies.
By the way, I’ve largely learned this mode of interacting with people from Fe-users. Fe-users have the best sense of things like boundaries and respect. Fi-users are often too self-centered to figure that stuff out on their own.