Siúil a Rúin
when the colors fade
- Joined
- Apr 23, 2007
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- ISFP
- Enneagram
- 496
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/sx
Focus on communicating the facts without creating a caricature in your mind about the "stupidity" of other people. When facts are communicated in a socially and emotionally demeaning manner, rather than a clear, objective manner, people get insulted. It's not the facts, but the need for social dominance that offends others. I would say to Te doms who often offend to step back and get a clear sense of where your literal objectivity about the facts ends and where your personal need to be right and superior to others begins.