The Ü™
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This is for any tertiary Fi type out there, probably more for INTJs, because of the nature of their dominant function.
First, I am 22 years old, and some theories suggest that around this age people start to develop their tertiary function, which, in my case, would be Fi. And Fi desires to form close bonds with others.
I will admit that I am deeply insecure and regretful about my past choices. I've always been the shy type, but only recently have I had concern for developing relationships. I repress these desires by lashing out and becoming angry at other people's happiness, I'm wondering if this is because of my Fi trying to develop and my fear of not knowing how to deal with it.
I've just never been that enthusiastic about forming relationships with others. My new desires for interaction with others often contradicts with Ni's desire to be what it perceives as idiosyncratic. I guess I'm just kind of scared in losing myself in other people, so to speak.
But have any other INTJs felt like this at my age?
First, I am 22 years old, and some theories suggest that around this age people start to develop their tertiary function, which, in my case, would be Fi. And Fi desires to form close bonds with others.
I will admit that I am deeply insecure and regretful about my past choices. I've always been the shy type, but only recently have I had concern for developing relationships. I repress these desires by lashing out and becoming angry at other people's happiness, I'm wondering if this is because of my Fi trying to develop and my fear of not knowing how to deal with it.
I've just never been that enthusiastic about forming relationships with others. My new desires for interaction with others often contradicts with Ni's desire to be what it perceives as idiosyncratic. I guess I'm just kind of scared in losing myself in other people, so to speak.
But have any other INTJs felt like this at my age?