Yes, I do have good social skills. My introversion is usually around 20%. I do have a strong Fe, however, I do feel drained somewhat and I run into getting attached because I feel responsible for any feeling that I let out.
I love talking one on one with people, especially when we start having real conversations. One on one with any friend or acquaintances makes them much more than an acquaintance in less than 30 minutes I would say. I hear things like, " Man, it's been a long time since I was able to talk to people about this." Or being able to read a feeling before it's spoken and clearly state, it's okay, I understand, no need to say anything and get a response back saying , ' Thank You. ' Because they know I got it.
Every now and then I do come out of my shell, thanks to my need to reach out to people, it keeps me from going too far into hermit mode. And when I do have an opportunity to meet someone whether at the Coffee shop or elsewhere, they are usually, very interesting people. I am able to have great conversations, however, in large groups I feel much more disassociated if I do not have at least one companion holding my brain. It's moving that fast so I talk much less. At parties I am usually trying to make my self useful, a bit restless, trying to manage the chaos. I tend to find myself in the kitchen, cleaning dishes, cooking, that sort of thing. Background work, but it is rewarding for me, because I get to see everyone having fun and laughing. This makes me laugh too to know I am contributing to their happiness.
It also has the reverse affect you know and funny it just yesterday found out a friend split up with a boyfriend. I wasn't surprised, as I told her I didn't like him to begin with. Shocking? Nah, it's all empathy and obviously a lack of empathy in any relationship is bound to fail outright.