AphroditeGoneAwry
failure to thrive
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Codependence is a topic that came up in another thread, and I decided to just give it its own thread.
Codependence is a concept from Alcoholics Anonymous.
However, I'd like to explore it more in depth. Codependence means cooperative dependence. Cooperative dependence mean things/people rely on each other and are dependent on each other; they cooperate for mutual gain. I suppose they could also cooperate for mutual destruction, which is likely where the modern understanding of codependece resides (with the negative connotation).
Dependent personality disorder is another disorder in the DSM and it basically is a laundry list of submissive personality attributes.
The common denominator here is that human relating necessitates that we bleed into each other in a myriad of ways, if we choose to live amongst others. The ways we interact with each other will be as healthy as we are, or as sick as we are. Because most of us depend on others, we are all cooperatively dependent in some way, and I believe that is a good thing. Otherwise we are all living in our own little bubble.
Thoughtful thoughts?
Codependence is a concept from Alcoholics Anonymous.
However, I'd like to explore it more in depth. Codependence means cooperative dependence. Cooperative dependence mean things/people rely on each other and are dependent on each other; they cooperate for mutual gain. I suppose they could also cooperate for mutual destruction, which is likely where the modern understanding of codependece resides (with the negative connotation).
Dependent personality disorder is another disorder in the DSM and it basically is a laundry list of submissive personality attributes.
The common denominator here is that human relating necessitates that we bleed into each other in a myriad of ways, if we choose to live amongst others. The ways we interact with each other will be as healthy as we are, or as sick as we are. Because most of us depend on others, we are all cooperatively dependent in some way, and I believe that is a good thing. Otherwise we are all living in our own little bubble.
Thoughtful thoughts?