Hi, I am wondering what type is the most drawn to test intellectually potential mates. I met 2 guys (1 past date, 1 potential date) with who the first conversations where completly intellectual about sharing opinions with deep argumentation in long long long mails. They are drawn to complete, deep argumentations and admire people able to keep on agrumentating with them. I feel some NTJness.
They are more sensitive to the ideas than the way to express them.
In my experience, it's not that I care a bit if and how a girl is intellectual. I'm smart enough for both of us. But I'll talk on intellectual-type subjects out of habit. I expect I'm not the only one. Every year I get less and less "intellectual" though, outwardly at least. Less wordy. It's less stressful.