I think for one thing you're still a little young. I don't know how many relationships you've been in, but in my recent experience it can be a wonderful connection. We're also not as overwhelming when you get to know us. Most of our attitude is bluster. At least for me it is.
I think it's likely that many NT's give people the space to be who they are. I know that I am very accepting and want everyone to be who they are as long as they are virtuous and strong.
Yeah, I think I should've begun that with, "in my experiences thus far.."
to clarify that I realize my pespectives are apt to change over time/through experience..
03/23 06:06:58 EcK: lex
03/23 06:06:59 EcK: lex
03/23 06:21:34 Nancynobullets: LEXXX *sacrifices a first born*
03/23 06:21:53 Nancynobullets: We summon yooouuu
03/23 06:29:07 Lexicon: I was sleeping!
04/25 04:20:35 Patches: Don't listen to lex. She wants to birth a litter of kittens. She doesnt get to decide whats creepy
02/16 23:49:38 ygolo: Lex is afk
02/16 23:49:45 Cimarron: she's doing drugs with Jack
03/05 19:27:41 Time: You can't make chat morbid. Lex does it naturally.
According to the theory's and experience ENTP's and ENFP's are great almost always.
However I think with many INFJ's being so complex in their own inner life, find that they may be drawn to any given type or choose a certain type for any given set of personal reasons. I find this in experience too. My oldest sister who is also an INFJ is married to a ESFP while I have dated ENTP, ENFP, INFP, ESFJ and ISFJ.
I personally am drawn to many female types but will only consider being with them if they are mature and are willing to put equal effort into the relationship. Also for me I don't need to get my intellectual stimulation from a significant other and prefer the comfort of someone who plainy cares about/for me and find that alone satisfying and fulfilling (of course physical romance is just as fulfilling).
"A well-spent day brings happy sleep." Leonardo da Vinci