Ok, since a rainstorm woke me up at 4 in the morning and I have nothing better to do, I went back through this thread, and I what I recommend, DJ, is that you study on being a dom. Be a good one, don't be the asshole kind. I think this is all about power -- you don't want her to apologize to you so much as you want her to submit to you. She seems to be asking for you to put limits on her behaviors -- she seems to prod you to show power. I missed the whole thing about the phone and your description of her body language and her general spoiled brat demeanor. I get what you're saying about how she likes it when you act fierce. I'm probably going to catch a lot of hell for saying it, but that seems to me it could work out as a dom/sub relationship very nicely, but you need to understand what's going on and how to use the energy she's giving you. She wants you to come back and play games with her some more, and she's waiting for you to make the move -- which is respectful, or that's one way to see it. Now listen to what [MENTION=4515]wolfy[/MENTION] said, way up thread, because he gets what's going on, too, and then it's up to you to research how you play these games so they are mutually fulfilling. I think what you have there is a SAM. I could be wrong, but that's what I think.