I do tend to need to have more in-depth characters in shows or movies to get that feeling, and it takes me back to my college years/youth when I feel it...I feel young again and I kinda grin to myself by myself while watching the show.
Recently, in rewatching 'Felicity', you might as well turn me into Felicity because I'd have her same dilemma getting giddy over both Ben and Noel.
Most recently, I thought the cop guy/ lead character in 'The Leftovers' was super hot. (I'm terrible at remembering character names)
I remember having a crush on Cole in Charmed back in the day, too. And, I like Daniel Craig in the Bond movies.
I also have always tended to like James McAvoy, but I think some of it is his irl Fe'ish personality (and wonderful sparkly eyes) leaks through and I find I am drawn to it. He has always seemed both warm and masculine to me.
When it comes to crush/romance material I definitely seem to have a thing for the more masculine assertive types (Felicity cast the exception; but they all just melted my heart

). Too bad irl you rarely find a worthy non-jackass personality to go along with that.