fetus
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When you seek security, what does that mean? Physical or material security? Emotional security?
Here's something I wrote on my outside blog about possible 6w7 "anchoring." Wanted to know if the rest of you related.
I have mentioned that, in the past, I have had difficulties with attachment and abandonment. It’s because I cling. Anchors are intensely important to me. I am a free-spirit at heart, but I do not waver in my loyalty or values. I am unafraid of commitment; once I have found my anchor, I will wholeheartedly plunge myself into steadfast devotion. In my body, I may flit around some, but in my soul, I am unmovable. And Lord knows my soul, not my body, has rule over me.
Does security-seeking have to do with instinctual variant differences also? Sixes seem to be extremely varied, thus hard to describe, no? With wings, variants, and phobic vs. counterphobic, they can appear quite different. (My sister, a counterphobic 6w5, and me, a phobic 6w7 - though I don't mean to use my personal experience as truth). How would different flavors of 6 seek security in different ways?
Here's something I wrote on my outside blog about possible 6w7 "anchoring." Wanted to know if the rest of you related.
I have mentioned that, in the past, I have had difficulties with attachment and abandonment. It’s because I cling. Anchors are intensely important to me. I am a free-spirit at heart, but I do not waver in my loyalty or values. I am unafraid of commitment; once I have found my anchor, I will wholeheartedly plunge myself into steadfast devotion. In my body, I may flit around some, but in my soul, I am unmovable. And Lord knows my soul, not my body, has rule over me.
Does security-seeking have to do with instinctual variant differences also? Sixes seem to be extremely varied, thus hard to describe, no? With wings, variants, and phobic vs. counterphobic, they can appear quite different. (My sister, a counterphobic 6w5, and me, a phobic 6w7 - though I don't mean to use my personal experience as truth). How would different flavors of 6 seek security in different ways?