Boogie man
Da Voodoo
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Alright.I included all of your posts precisely to get a more complete picture. I agree that there is some context missing, as I didn't quote those folks to whom you were responding. However, the most important component was your own words. I did read the context when I was commenting, however.
You're right, there are "lotta assumptions", but they're spoken plainly to give you a chance to clarify. To me, that is a great gift. Better to plainly speak my assessment and allow you to clarify than to assume and not open myself up to correction.
I don't want you to do anything you don't want to do. I just wanted to respond to your posts because I saw in them hurt and discomfort.
Wow. What an analogy. Dare I say... I disagree with the analogy!In some ways, Biden's role is taken for granted. Let me give you an analogy:
Suppose I were to offer you the choice between (1) a hog-liver sandwich on stale bread, and (2) a pint of human excrement. You have to eat one. We could certainly spend some time talking about what sorts of condiments are on the sandwich, or about why the corn kernels in the shit are actually a good source of fiber, but I'd be much more compelled to speak about the dangers of eating human excrement. That choice truly is more about avoiding eating shit than the merits of that particular sandwich.
Now, this isn't to say that Trump is human shit or that Biden is some gross sandwich. But, I want to make clear that some choices are such that it is less about what you're for and more about what you're against. How many times have you been in a group and said "I'm OK with anything but seafood" or something similar. It's not abnormal or wrong. But, were I a Trump supporter my goal would be to shift the discussion away from Trump and toward Biden, and I would make similar claims about how this thread "isn't doing it right." Your actions, while perhaps intended differently, are very similar to strategic actions taken by supporters of the president to his benefit. And they aren't generally received favorably because they aren't really germane to the choice. "You shouldn't only talk about why human shit is bad for you...in fact, the science is sort of dubious on that. We really need to be talking about how liver is harmful as well. You are all just echoing each other!" You're essentially talking down to us and criticizing the way we are contributing to this thread collectively even though we aren't coordinating our efforts or doing anything other than behaving as intelligent, reasonable individuals.
See, there is the assumption that the frequent posters here are "intelligent, reasonable individuals." Yet, from saying that, you follow up with:
This is the good part. Though I stand by my view that all candidates ought to be criticized. Especially on a public thread with such a neutral premise as simply "Trump v Biden."It isn't that I'm turning a blind eye to Biden. As a part of my efforts phone-banking for him, I've become more familiar with his policies and generally agree with his agenda. But I would have done the same for any of the candidates running in the primary.
Anyway, I was really referring to this follow-up:
Yikes!How would this thread be less of an echo-chamber without contributions from folks like you? You're asking us to speak differently about things, and I wonder why that is? Aren't you making assumptions about us in that suggestion? As though we are doing ourselves a disservice by advocating in a way we'd prefer? I'm not trying to echo anyone.
Obama may have not been unifying, but Trump absolutely isn't. And while Trump wasn't an accident, I think you're making some big assumptions about why/how he was elected. While the establishment isn't ideal, Trump has shown himself to be worse. He's corrupt to the core, and acts almost (or maybe always) exclusively in self-interest.
I think there is opportunity for contributions to this thread by pro-Trump posters, but the harsh reality is that they will face criticism. It's only natural when you have a lopsided group of posters that those on one side will feel ganged-up on and attacked. But in truth, it's simply a matter of a collection of individuals independently reacting to ideas with which they disagree. Each of us has a right to be critical of "bad" ideas and to comment on them. I'm not sure how we could change that without some top-down planning, which would be even worse.
You deem Trump to be "corrupt to the core, and act(ing) almost (or maybe always) exclusively in self-interest."
But Biden gets the pass because you generally agree with his agenda. Are you aware that Trump and Biden have overlapping agenda points? I'm telling you, this is why you will not find yourself in an open dialogue with others who disagree with your viewpoint. To claim that negatively obsessing (that's what it looks like) about Trump (let's say about 90% of this thread, no?) and think that this is intelligent or reasonable when discussing two candidates for the presidency seems anything but. You come across as reasonable and polite, but just as you doubt my intentions, I doubt yours. You are not being critical of Trump. A more correct way of describing is that you have condemned Trump. He already is irredeemable to the frequent posters on this thread. This makes it not open for dialogue. The tone is set, the stage ready, the actors are decided.
You also say that "I think you're making some big assumptions about why/how he was elected." The only thing I mentioned was that it was not because of race. You know why? Because there is simply no evidence for it. This isn't some big assumption. It's rather funny, but it is more of an assumption to assume that my statement there was a big assumption. Oh boy! What a sentence.
To close, I will echo something you said, but change the wording a little:
Were I behaving as an intelligent, reasonable individual, my goal would be to shift the discussion away from speaking nigh exclusively about Trump and instead offer constructive critique to both Trump and Biden and their voters, and I would make similar claims about how this thread "isn't doing it right."
As it stands, I see no constructive critique happening in regards to politics in this thread. And this is not because you favor one over the other - which is what would be normal and expected - but it's because one is deemed irredeemably corrupt to the core, and the other isn't. The self-righteousness in this belief is misplaced, especially when the topic is called "Trump vs Biden." This threat seems to pretend that Trump did not accomplish a single good thing. Or that, if he did, it must have been out of malice! This is just unrealistic. Me finding this thread is like an atheist stumbling into church. Oopsie Daisy! I knocked over the wine.