Southern Kross
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^ Ooh did your Yemeni friends wear those sophisticated white keffiyehs? That could make anyone look wealthy.
^ Ooh did your Yemeni friends wear those sophisticated white keffiyehs? That could make anyone look wealthy.
Oh, I just remembered another piece of advice [MENTION=4945]EJCC[/MENTION]: do not stay in a hotel near a mosque.
That is, unless you want to be blasted awake at 4:30am by the call to prayer playing at eardrum shattering volume. I speak from experience.![]()
I have been living in Egypt for the past two-three years now EJCC. Granted, I'm not very fluent in Arabic but I know a little more than enough to get by. If you wish, we could have a meet-up in your free time. I'd be in Cairo but I'd not find much difficulty in reaching Alexandria to give it a look for a day. Locals in Egypt are often very curious as well as people-inclined so it's highly likely you'll get a large number of social interactions with repeating patterns of questions. Quite likely by the end of the 8 weeks you will have memorised a lot of your replies. It's a flexible country where the nodes of fun can be altered in what you wish, so it's always good to explore to see what things you would enjoy. I've heard good things about the Alexandria library so I'd imagine it may good spot to give a look.
(1) Be very courteous to the staff of the hotel you are staying at. Tip them well. They will offer you useful information to keep you alive if you tip them well. I'm not kidding.
This is all very good advice! Thank you.(2) "When in Rome, do as the Romans do." - There's alot of truth to this age old expression.
(3) Don't go off anywhere by yourself. Stay with people from your group.
(4) I'd give the same advice to you traveling to ANY CITY.
(5) Use your common sense; be aware of scoietal norms, including who's in charge in your area, and what common crimes are in that region. Chances are if it's a big tourist spot, things like pick-pocketing and other forms of pilfery are not uncommon.
I've heard about that! I've also heard that they like to give you tea during the haggling process. How do you refuse those things?You can buy trinkets on the street just don't be guilt tripped into doing it and do not go home with them to meet their families!. They'll just try to sell you more stuff haha.
I've heard about that. I'm planning on covering my head most of the time I'm in public places, to avoid that as much as I can.As a woman you may have difficulty traveling alone. I don't know how it is for expats there, but if an Egyptian woman is seen talking to a stranger in public (for example a cafe) she is assumed to be a prostitute.
SO EXCITED about cafes!! I love Turkish coffeeLastly, I hear cafes are a great place to hang out esp. if you like turkish coffee & hookah.
Mumtaz! La atakellum al-Arabiya al-Masriya wa lakin atakellum MSA qaleelan.WARNING LONG POST
I travelled to Egypt a few years ago and learned a little arabi.![]()
That's really all I have to do??Markets/tourist places
Egyptians are lovely people, but to many you are merely a walking wallet. You will get BOMBARDED with people trying to entice you into their shop, to be your tour guide, to sell you a ride on their boat/camel/donkey/horse and cart/taxi etc. It isn't as bad in Cairo as it was in Sinai and in the South but you still get it everywhere. You have to steel yourself a little. People will try to exploit your politeness and lack of knowledge and will try to emotionally manipulate you. I found sometimes you simply had to avoid eye contact, ignore people or coldly wave them off with "Laa, Laa". This sounds (and feels) very rude but it's whole lot better than flying into a total rage and ripping them a new one, which, after a while, even this patient, understanding, mild-mannered, INFP did a few times.![]()
What should I do in lieu of drinking bottled water, if I choose not to do that? Do you think taking a Nalgene bottle and filling it with hotel tap water in the morning (and at the University in the afternoon) would be okay?Don't drink the water out of the tap (including things like ice in your coke) because your delicate western stomach won't take it, but eating the food is fine (although it is better to avoid unpackaged raw food or fruit you haven't washed yourself). Read the nutritional labels on bottled water - some brands are full of chemicals and taste like pool water, so those are best to be avoided.
How do you know when/where those rules exist? Are there signs?Rules and systems
Prepare for lots of abritray rules; particularly about what you can take pictures of.It's frustrating as hell but there can be harsh fines.
Safety
Egypt is a safe place. You are probably safer from mugging, pick pocketing or being attacked than you would be in say France or Italy.
Don't be sorry -- it was so helpful!Sorry for the novel but it helps to be prepared for Egypt.
Ooh! I love that show. I'll definitely check that out!@ EJCC, Good luck, and have a ton of fun. Make sure you try local foods. They usually have great noms everywhere. There is an episode of Anthony Bourdain where he goes to Egypt and covers the popular local foods in Egypt, so I suggest you check that out.
Because of the food?Take some anti-nausea and peptobismol medication.
Ooh this is a GREAT idea. Are they pretty common in Egypt, i.e. are they pretty readily available in Egyptian shops?A hand held fan when you're stuck in a taxi cab or a place without air conditioning.
That's a great idea! I don't own any wedding-ish rings but I am very willing to lie and say that I'm engaged.I think most of what I'd say has been covered. You could wear a wedding ring (or just a wedding-ish ring on that finger) and be prepared to lie about a husband or fiancee if asked. I don't usually advocate lying but in that respect it might be advisable.I was with a group of friends including men which helped a lot - I would have expected more harassment otherwise from all I've heard.
The trip planners advised us to only bring a week's worth of clothes and then buy the rest of our clothes when we get there. Should I expect a huge price difference b/w Egypt and America -- i.e. if I haggle well?Definitely wear long skirts (which I found very comfortable in 40 degree heat) or baggy (prefereably linen) trousers and tops that at least cover your shoulders, preferably elbow-length sleeves or so. Also the tip about a drapy scarf/shawl is good as you can use it for covering a low-cut top, putting on your head for heat or modesty, etc.
Oh, for sure!! I think it'll be safer in Alexandria, so it'll be good that I'll only be in Cairo for a couple of days. Did you notice anything when you were there? Heightened tensions?Keep an eye on the security situation as obviously Egypt has been unstable the last 2 years. (I was there six months before the revolution.)
Flamethrower.Do you (and/or others) have any tips for avoiding pickpocketing?
LOL, not always. Often they'll follow you if they don't have a fixed shop (eg. tour guides or people selling rides etc). Some followed me 200m down the street, selling hard the whole time, ignoring the 27 times I bluntly said no. The important thing is not to engage them. They try to ask clever questions, exploit on basic western courtesies and somehow stop you from actually being able to refuse them. The thing is that it works - I've spoken to so many people who got talked into buying things they didn't need or want (or even like, in some cases!) and for over-inflated prices. They'd blow the best telemarketers in the world out of the water!That's really all I have to do??Just wave my arm and say "laa"? Oh man, my Te is getting such warm fuzzies! That is too good to be true!! I'd heard in Morocco there's a saying along the lines of "God will bless you if you leave me alone"
and I was hoping that there was an Egyptian equivalent!
Not sure, I only drank bottled water but I doubt the tap water is safe. The thing is, even if you avoid tap water you can get sick - even getting some water in your mouth from the shower or brushing your teeth can be enough. I avoided tap water and got a parasite (although it could have been from the West Bank or Jordan too) and my cousin got salmonella poisoning when she was there. You might want to take some anti-diahorrea pills too (imodium is good) because they can get you through the mild stomach issues. Hopefully you can avoid this, Inshallah.What should I do in lieu of drinking bottled water, if I choose not to do that? Do you think taking a Nalgene bottle and filling it with hotel tap water in the morning (and at the University in the afternoon) would be okay?
Also, how much does fruit juice help with that? I have heard that there is fantastic fruit juice to be had in Egypt -- tamr Hindi, etc.
I'm not sure if there were signs. Usually it's explained to you before you go to those places. But there are often these nazi security guards that go around telling you off. Some places you can get away with it, if you're sneaky and play the dumb tourist card but don't push it too hard.How do you know when/where those rules exist? Are there signs?
No worries, but I would keep in mind the things others who have been more recently (ie. post revolution) have said too. Things might have gotten a little more dicey since then. I just want to emphasize the fact you don't need to be too panicky about it just because it's a developing nation and an Arab one at that (negative stereotypes about Arab are abound). Try to relax and enjoy yourself.
Don't be sorry -- it was so helpful!I will be sending it to my other Alexandria-bound friends for reference
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Finally asking follow-up questions:
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This is all very good advice! Thank you.
Do you (and/or others) have any tips for avoiding pickpocketing?
Awesome!Traveling
That's where I live!to Alexandria,
Oh...Egypt
YOU'RE a bit late. I went on this trip a year ago.EJCC, You're a bit late. They already torched the library.
YOU'RE a bit late. I went on this trip a year ago.![]()
(They rebuilt the library, though, and it looks pretty neat. Has a great view of the Mediterranean.)
(Not sure if this is the right subforum, but I'm not sure where else travel/culture stuff would go.)
I'm spending 8 weeks in Alexandria, Egypt over the summer, studying intensive advanced-level Arabic, trying to figure out 'ammiyya (dialect), and generally studying a whole lot, and only going out and having fun when I have the time for it, and when the program hasn't scheduled something for me to do.
We'll be traveling to the North Coast for one weekend, and to Cairo for another. Our classes will be from 8am to 2pm, our homework will probably take us 4-5 hours, but the rest of the day will be free for hanging out with each other, with our language partners, and generally having a good time.
Keeping all of these (possibly unnecessary) details in mind... If you've been to Egypt (or anywhere nearby), or if you know any fun phrases in Egyptian Arabic for me to learn, or good songs to sing (besides "Inta Masry" by Nancy Ajram), or general tips/warnings for a wayward American (female) traveler to Alexandria, this is the place to post them! And surely someone else who would plan to go to Egypt might benefit from this thread too.
So... Does anyone have any words of wisdom for me?
!شكرا جزيلا