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Thoughts & Venting

fetus

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I feel like I love and love and love, but nobody gives back. Is it because I'm too gushy? Am I too affectionate for my own good? Maybe I'm so passionate that my own efforts to love cloud my vision. Damn it, I just want to see! I just want to exit the maze that is my mind and step out into the real world. Everybody talks about being on the outside looking in, but oh, how I would love to be in that position. I'm on the inside looking out. Trapped in the subjective, longing for logic.

Here I go into the "woe is me" mood. I need to get outside.
 

JAVO

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Many people are skeptical of love or afraid of it. In general, people who are wise, mature, and secure are not afraid of love. They cannot love someone else because loving one's self is a prerequisite.
 

PatriciaTheArtist

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Look for people who respond favorably to your generous love and affection. You'll be far more satisfied in such a mutual arrangement (than trying to make others more warm and engaging). Also, that relieves you of the (vexing) burden of trying to minimize your own emotional generosity.
 

TopCatLSD

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The fuck do you need logic for?

Just go out, and show how fuckin awesome you are! Forget the ungrateful fucks that ignore you, and just strive for greatness, the rest will happen on its own.

I guarantee you that they're missing out, and I know for a fact that deep, deep inside, you're meant for greatness and they're just holding you back. Your greatest weakness is the love you give and that no one gives back, once you STAMP out that weakness you'll reach the top faster than they ever could. :newwink:


I leave you with this: Forget your weakness, remember your goal, and strive for greatness. :D

Live a good forever, and I'll meet you at the top!
 
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The most important thing is being able to love yourself and being somewhat self reliant in order to be strong. You have to rely on yourself more than 50%, even in a relationship. This doesn't mean using/exploiting others or being an self-centered egoist. You just have to be a strong person to be able to provide others and yourself with value.

The true power comes from within. If you rely mostly on yourself then you can release people and other things more easily without suffering and you can enjoy the ride without fearing the end (because everything ends at some point).
 

Anomoly

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we live in one hundred acre wood, me and you piglet, pooh, eyeore rabbit and tigger and everyone just would all hold hands in a mighty circle and i'd give you a flower. x
 
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