perhaps not in your personal bubble, but i think that this is absurd... the military isn't about decency, kittens, or rainbows... it is about preparing yourself to deal with some of the worst shit humanity has to offer, and preparing to not be intimidated... there should be no holds barred in that process if the ultimate goal is to have the best prepared military... if words can still make you cry, it is time to grow a spine or leave the fucking military... if you cry over words, what sort of mess will you be if your friend's head disappears, you have to shoot a kid, or you are captured and get a taste of a real "bully"... if you aren't joking, than i have no problem letting you know that i find your opinion niave... i would imagine that people who think that are better suited to tea parties with stuffed animals than the reality of how grim life can become... i've never joined the millitary, because i just don't like the idea of killing some of the folks they need to kill, but a little yelling is honestly a mercy... i want to call this a troll post, but maybe you are serious...