Nicodemus
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The Social Orientation Inventory
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The Avoidance Artist
-Attent/Other/-Attach/-Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 43% Attention-desiring, 86% Other-directedness, 41% Attachment-desiring, 49% Emotionality, 77% Romance-seeking, 34% Range, and 25% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Distant
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. You don't get too close, and you don't put much effort into keeping particular people in your life. Sexual/romantic partners may get frustrated with your need for space. You are likely to be shy.
-Attent/Other/-Attach/-Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 43% Attention-desiring, 86% Other-directedness, 41% Attachment-desiring, 49% Emotionality, 77% Romance-seeking, 34% Range, and 25% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Distant
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. You don't get too close, and you don't put much effort into keeping particular people in your life. Sexual/romantic partners may get frustrated with your need for space. You are likely to be shy.
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The Obese Cat
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially sexual/romantic partners. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while allowing you enough space.
Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Obese Cat
-Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure
You scored 33% Attention-desiring, 64% Other-directedness, 53% Attachment-desiring, 61% Emotionality, 54% Romance-seeking, 34% Range, and 71% Secureness.
The Obese Cat
-Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure
You scored 33% Attention-desiring, 64% Other-directedness, 53% Attachment-desiring, 61% Emotionality, 54% Romance-seeking, 34% Range, and 71% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially sexual/romantic partners. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while allowing you enough space.
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Yeah, Nico owned that quiz.
Here's mine:
The Injured Kitten
-Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 39% Attention-desiring, 59% Other-directedness, 70% Attachment-desiring, 60% Emotionality, 80% Romance-seeking, 39% Range, and 34% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially sexual/romantic partners. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while allowing you enough space. You are likely to be shy.
Works well with my current avatar and that ghastly video Oaky made featuring it.
Oh, the names just keep getting more beautiful for you all. This thread really makes me happy.Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Obese Cat
-Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure
You scored 33% Attention-desiring, 64% Other-directedness, 53% Attachment-desiring, 61% Emotionality, 54% Romance-seeking, 34% Range, and 71% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially sexual/romantic partners. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while allowing you enough space.
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Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Obese Cat
-Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure
You scored 33% Attention-desiring, 64% Other-directedness, 53% Attachment-desiring, 61% Emotionality, 54% Romance-seeking, 34% Range, and 71% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially sexual/romantic partners. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while allowing you enough space.
I just can't stop thinking that you're awesome.
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The Cabin in the Woods
-Attent/Other/+Attach/-Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 41% Attention-desiring, 57% Other-directedness, 60% Attachment-desiring, 49% Emotionality, 54% Romance-seeking, 48% Range, and 40% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially romantic partners. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you. You are likely to be shy.
-Attent/Other/+Attach/-Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 41% Attention-desiring, 57% Other-directedness, 60% Attachment-desiring, 49% Emotionality, 54% Romance-seeking, 48% Range, and 40% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially romantic partners. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you. You are likely to be shy.
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Nevermind. It means high emotionality and low attachment. Sounds like Asperger's Syndrome or autism. Or someone emo who has been hurt terribly and shut down.
It's between Distant and Merging, each of which seems to make more sense cohesively within one individual.
It's between Distant and Merging, each of which seems to make more sense cohesively within one individual.
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Yes, the titles are excellent.... except mine is more typical.
The Social Climber
+Attent/Self/-Attach/-Emo/-<3/Broad/Secure
You scored 67% Attention-desiring, 54% Other-directedness, 39% Attachment-desiring, 46% Emotionality, 36% Romance-seeking, 56% Range, and 65% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Distant
Summary: You crave regular acknowledgment and recognition from others. Although you have many acquaintances, you don't get too close, and you don't put much effort into keeping particular people in your life. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you. You are good at stepping on people when you choose to.
Here is a glossary to help you understand the cryptic, septapartite notation of your SOI type:
+Attent=high desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction (specific attentional needs vary from type to type)
Self=more interested in oneself than in others when interacting
-Attach=does not seek out long-term attachments
-Emo=prefers unemotional relationships
-<3=low desire for sex and/or romance
Broad=interacts with many people
Secure=does not expect negative evaluation from others
The Social Climber
+Attent/Self/-Attach/-Emo/-<3/Broad/Secure
You scored 67% Attention-desiring, 54% Other-directedness, 39% Attachment-desiring, 46% Emotionality, 36% Romance-seeking, 56% Range, and 65% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Distant
Summary: You crave regular acknowledgment and recognition from others. Although you have many acquaintances, you don't get too close, and you don't put much effort into keeping particular people in your life. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you. You are good at stepping on people when you choose to.
Here is a glossary to help you understand the cryptic, septapartite notation of your SOI type:
+Attent=high desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction (specific attentional needs vary from type to type)
Self=more interested in oneself than in others when interacting
-Attach=does not seek out long-term attachments
-Emo=prefers unemotional relationships
-<3=low desire for sex and/or romance
Broad=interacts with many people
Secure=does not expect negative evaluation from others
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The Beet
-Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 43% Attention-desiring, 47% Other-directedness, 63% Attachment-desiring, 51% Emotionality, 56% Romance-seeking, 36% Range, and 46% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives, but you do make an effort to hold onto important relationships, especially sexual/romantic ones. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while not robbing you of your autonomy. You are likely to be shy and to expend much of your mental energy towards self-doubt, shame, embarrassment, etc. If you haven't done so already, consider sexual masochism as a hobby.
-Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 43% Attention-desiring, 47% Other-directedness, 63% Attachment-desiring, 51% Emotionality, 56% Romance-seeking, 36% Range, and 46% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives, but you do make an effort to hold onto important relationships, especially sexual/romantic ones. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while not robbing you of your autonomy. You are likely to be shy and to expend much of your mental energy towards self-doubt, shame, embarrassment, etc. If you haven't done so already, consider sexual masochism as a hobby.
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The Crooner
+Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure
You scored 59% Attention-desiring, 65% Other-directedness, 62% Attachment-desiring, 63% Emotionality, 81% Romance-seeking, 26% Range, and 66% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You enjoy high levels of interaction with those you choose to be close to. Your romantic relationships tend to be of the "attached-at-the-hip" variety, and you probably like to dote on your significant others. Your friendships are fairly constant over time.
+Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure
You scored 59% Attention-desiring, 65% Other-directedness, 62% Attachment-desiring, 63% Emotionality, 81% Romance-seeking, 26% Range, and 66% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You enjoy high levels of interaction with those you choose to be close to. Your romantic relationships tend to be of the "attached-at-the-hip" variety, and you probably like to dote on your significant others. Your friendships are fairly constant over time.
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Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives. While you enjoy high-intensity, short-term interactions—especially sexual/romantic ones—you don't put much effort into maintaining relationships. You are likely to have issues with commitment and loss of autonomy: occasional rendezvous are good for your self-image, but any relationship that threatens to eclipse your identity is a no-go.
You scored
-Attent/Self/-Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
-Attent=low desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction
Self=more interested in oneself than in others when interacting
-Attach=does not seek out long-term attachments
+Emo=prefers emotionally intense relationships
+<3=high desire for sex and/or romance
Narrow=interacts with few people
Insecure=expects negative evaluation from others
Acute=Low attachment-seeking, high emotionality (acute types tend toward extremes, and temporal orientation is mostly immediate)
Your Analysis
You scored 30% on Attention-desiring, higher than 5% of your peers.
You scored 46% on Other-directedness, higher than 15% of your peers.
You scored 49% on Attachment-desiring, higher than 18% of your peers.
You scored 57% on Emotionality, higher than 50% of your peers.
You scored 67% on Romance-seeking, higher than 47% of your peers.
You scored 30% on Range, higher than 13% of your peers.
You scored 40% on Secureness, higher than 21% of your peers.
The Runaway Train
Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives. While you enjoy high-intensity, short-term interactions—especially sexual/romantic ones—you don't put much effort into maintaining relationships. You are likely to have issues with commitment and loss of autonomy: occasional rendezvous are good for your self-image, but any relationship that threatens to eclipse your identity is a no-go.
You scored
67% Romance-seeking
57% Emotionality
49% Attachment-desiring
46% Other-directedness
40% Secureness.
30% Range
30% Attention-desiring
57% Emotionality
49% Attachment-desiring
46% Other-directedness
40% Secureness.
30% Range
30% Attention-desiring
-Attent/Self/-Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
-Attent=low desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction
Self=more interested in oneself than in others when interacting
-Attach=does not seek out long-term attachments
+Emo=prefers emotionally intense relationships
+<3=high desire for sex and/or romance
Narrow=interacts with few people
Insecure=expects negative evaluation from others
Acute=Low attachment-seeking, high emotionality (acute types tend toward extremes, and temporal orientation is mostly immediate)
Your Analysis
You scored 30% on Attention-desiring, higher than 5% of your peers.
You scored 46% on Other-directedness, higher than 15% of your peers.
You scored 49% on Attachment-desiring, higher than 18% of your peers.
You scored 57% on Emotionality, higher than 50% of your peers.
You scored 67% on Romance-seeking, higher than 47% of your peers.
You scored 30% on Range, higher than 13% of your peers.
You scored 40% on Secureness, higher than 21% of your peers.
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Yes, high emotionality and low attachment ...that's what I said.
An acute person tends toward extremes and temporal orientation is mostly immediate...so what am I missing in that sentence? What is your interpretation of that?
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You also said
I'm merely pointing out that scoring Acute doesn't necessarily signify someone as an Aspie or an emo on love lockdown. I use my results as an example.
I'm merely pointing out that scoring Acute doesn't necessarily signify someone as an Aspie or an emo on love lockdown. I use my results as an example.
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What do you think it means? What does it mean to you?
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Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Programmer
-Attent/Other/-Attach/-Emo/-<3/Narrow/Secure
You scored 36% Attention-desiring, 75% Other-directedness, 49% Attachment-desiring, 27% Emotionality, 30% Romance-seeking, 32% Range, and 53% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Distant
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. You don't get too close or put much effort into keeping particular people in your life. Although you aren't completely disinterested in others, you have more pressing concerns than socializing.
The Programmer
-Attent/Other/-Attach/-Emo/-<3/Narrow/Secure
You scored 36% Attention-desiring, 75% Other-directedness, 49% Attachment-desiring, 27% Emotionality, 30% Romance-seeking, 32% Range, and 53% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Distant
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. You don't get too close or put much effort into keeping particular people in your life. Although you aren't completely disinterested in others, you have more pressing concerns than socializing.
