greenfairy
philosopher wood nymph
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You've met lots of unattractive INFJ's?
You've met lots of unattractive INFJ's?
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You've met lots of unattractive INFJ's?
I was just trying to decipher the meaning of your response, because it's cryptic as always. I can't actually say every one I know of is attractive, but I think most have their own sort of sex appeal. And most people like their own type.Pretty sure I haven't met an INFJ in real life before, that I know of.
And is that what we're basing this off of? Attractiveness?
I dunno..
I would ask, "how do you define sexy?"
What's sexy to one person, might be mediocre to another.
I would have to say that there's no such thing as a sexiest type. I think that there are sexy individuals of every type. In some ways, that feels like a one dimensional question that doesn't account for innumerable variables.
On a personal note: I have a close friend, a fellow musician, painter and martial artist. We honestly love each other but I have never thought of him as sexy and he calls me his Jedi master. Women hit on him constantly and he ends up sleeping with most of them; I look at him and wonder what's wrong with me because I don't see him as sexy or even really attractive. Most of his partners are of the SFP variety. So, apparently what appeals to them doesn't appeal to me. He does play in a band and I suppose that draws some attention that I often feel is undeserved and I feel that he gives himself away to these girls and that none of them really care about him, only about the fun of sleeping with a musician, but I suppose that's another thread. I keep telling him to go slow and that he doesn't have to sleep with every girl that crawls up on the stage.
Personally, I've never met too many aesthetically pleasing INTPs. Granted, it could be because most INTPs are of my sex and that the most obvious INTPs probably don't invest much into their physical appearence. It probably depends on things like sexual orientation, type, healthiness, and what your (MBTII was just trying to decipher the meaning of your response, because it's cryptic as always. I can't actually say every one I know of is attractive, but I think most have their own sort of sex appeal. And most people like their own type.
Sexiness for me is about 50% general aesthetic appeal, some of the rest a sort of sensual passion which is exuded, and some percentage attractive qualities like competence, independence, sense of humor, etc.
Personally, I've never met too many aesthetically pleasing INTPs. Granted, it could be because most INTPs are of my sex and that the most obvious INTPs probably don't invest much into their physical appearence. It probably depends on things like sexual orientation, type, healthiness, and what your (MBTI) type is.
Yeah, probably. I haven't met a lot of confirmed INTP's either, though I'm certain they're all over my philosophy classes. I'd like to get better at typing the females and get to know a couple since I don't know any female INTP's offline.
I doubt there's anything close to a dearth of INTPs in philosophy classes, LOL
Some think the Water Rat, others think Mr Badger, while others prefer Toad, but I think Moles are the sexiest animals.