You kill me mah' xSTP brother.
That sentiment is mutually expressed.
One of my co-workers is currently experiencing the "Sour Grapes, BeeYatch?"
Awwww... Poor baby poo-poo pants...BooHoo....
I've done nothing to him. Whatever rain is currently pouring on his solo parade...completely self-inflicted.
Do not recognize his self inflicted dis-array, conduct appropriate "CYA" (cover your ass) procedures, and build your objective file of indisputable evidnce as to who is wrong and who is right as you progress forward from here on out. You and I both know, it's not a matter of IF the shit hits the fan...it's a matter of WHEN.
Don't feel sorry for him. Don't expect for others to see it.
Everyone hates #1. BooHoo.
All I can say is that if you're a manipulative control freak...steer clear of the xSTP's or prepare to find yourself kicked to a curb of your own making.
You and I need to talk as to how I have had to implement this skill set over the past year. You have no idea. You will love it though, as I am pretty damn sure you would have done similarly as I have, and come out on top of the whole debaucle smelling like a rose.
We'll wrestle that significant obstacle to the ground.
"Whatis best in life xSTP?"
"Crush your enemises, see themn driven before you, and the lamentations of theirt women (Conan the Barabarian)...and oh yeaahh, get me some Brusters Birthday Cake Ice Cream, I am hungry!!!

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Greater good! YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We know how to wield this in the course of making our own agenda come to fruition better than any others. I embrace this parto f my existence, as because of it I have far more friends than enemies. I love people, and the people I have benefitted understand that I helped them out of genuine human concern, and it has changed them for the better, and they are now doing it themselves, and that is the best repayment I could ever ask for.
