I have a newfound hatred for humanity now that I know this "habitica" app exists. That is good, because hate motivates me almost as much as vanity.
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So this is what's up for me...
I started going to one of those bootcamp places where they do a mix of strength training with weights and your own body weight as resistance, some isometrics and intermittent cardio, with more focus on strength training. I go about 3-4x/week and also do yoga here and there. I like it because they are small classes where instructors demo everything and correct your form as needed, so it's the next best thing to a personal trainer. The cons are that it is not a full gym (ie no showers, so best to do on the way home), and it is still pricey (but cheaper than a trainer).
I don't need to lose weight but am always trying to maintain "firmness" as I seem to lose muscle more easily than I gain weight. I am already thin, but also like being leaner because I find it better for clothes, and so I wouldn't mind taking an inch off the butt/hips, but I will take more firmness over decrease in size. A big round firm butt looks better than jigglier small one. I realize this is about fat loss and about diet, which I am not thrilled about, not because I eat a lot, but because I already eat very little and so it means I simply have to make better choices.
I also want to eat less sugar, more for anti-aging than weight. I would like to get down to minimal natural sweeteners (ie honey) and only refined sugar for occasional treats.
I also want to eat even more veggies and get less of my protein from meat (ie do more lentils and beans instead). I have no interest in cutting out dairy or grain, which I digest perfectly fine. I seek out bread with only a few ingredients. I like this whole wheat tuscan pane bread from Trader Joe's: whole wheat flour, water, sea salt, yeast. That's it. I do pasta too. No intention of cutting that out.
I think my ideal diet is the oft-touted Mediterranean diet, mainly because it doesn't cut anything out totally, but the focus is on fresh veggies. Like most Americans, the issue is the demands of our culture to work so much and having to commute everywhere, but still finding time to prepare fresh food and eat it without rush. Eating itself can feel like a chore to me, but maybe I wouldn't feel that way if it were not treated like some task that there is 30 min or less allotted for.
I would like a less hectic life, but I already feel like there is more I want to do and not enough time.