[MBTI General] Question to the ENFP's

[alcea rosea]

i don't know, i think it's pretty fun. besides, i think a lot of enfp's prefer the other person to initiate the romantic conversation. most of my relationships only began because the other person gave away their interest first. it's a mind game and i don't play unless i have a full deck.

I disagree.
I prefer to initiate if I'm interested which I'm not because I'm happily married.

 

[nomadic]

i don't know, i think it's pretty fun. besides, i think a lot of enfp's prefer the other person to initiate the romantic conversation. most of my relationships only began because the other person gave away their interest first. it's a mind game and i don't play unless i have a full deck.

now i remember 10 years ago!

thnx man. haha

been in serious relationships for the past 10 years straight. i really forgot what shiet was like. LOL

 

[sketcheasy]

now i remember 10 years ago!

thnx man. haha

been in serious relationships for the past 10 years straight. i really forgot what shiet was like. LOL

haha, no problem. i wish i had the balls, but when they're perfect i am like those goats that play dead when they sense danger. no social capability whatsoever. so, if they aren't blushing, i ain't talking.

 

[sciski]

haha, no problem. i wish i had the balls, but when they're perfect i am like those goats that play dead when they sense danger. no social capability whatsoever. so, if they aren't blushing, i ain't talking.

Your romantic style is 'fainting goat'??

I suppose that's one way to catch their attention...

 

[sketcheasy]

LMAO XD. i have no response, i can only laugh.

 

[LadyJaye]

Your romantic style is 'fainting goat'??

I suppose that's one way to catch their attention...

I gotta try the "fainting goat" approach!

 

[sketcheasy]

this reminds of henry from the webseries we need girlfriends.

YouTube - WE NEED GIRLFRIENDS - EPISODE 1

do you think henry is an enfp? maybe infp but he's pretty vocal about his thoughts and feelings.

 

[Maabus1999]

Your romantic style is 'fainting goat'??

I suppose that's one way to catch their attention...

Lol, I guess it might work as it would make me check to see if you needed CPR. One way to get close

 

[TrueHeart]

To me, this has nothing to do with whether or not she is open about how she feels. This is just part of the game we play!

No, not a game with her at all. Deadly serious. Typical reaction of introverted feeling, I think.

 

[tothresevn]

Try telling the truth for once.

 

[findthejake]

Your romantic style is 'fainting goat'??

I suppose that's one way to catch their attention...

I am right there with you man. I do the same thing, no matter how interested I am in a girl if she doesn't make the first move, I play dead. Even sometimes when they do make the first move I go crazy trying to figure out if it was a move or not.

I hate hate HATE the whole "game" thing and mostly say I refuse to play but I guess I have to. I'll be sooo glad when I am in a serious relationship and don't have to worry about it anymore.

 

[sketcheasy]

I am right there with you man. I do the same thing, no matter how interested I am in a girl if she doesn't make the first move, I play dead. Even sometimes when they do make the first move I go crazy trying to figure out if it was a move or not.

I hate hate HATE the whole "game" thing and mostly say I refuse to play but I guess I have to. I'll be sooo glad when I am in a serious relationship and don't have to worry about it anymore.

i think the worst problem for me now is contemplating whether a girl, no matter how great she is. its the whole grass is greener thing... because i don't want to do anything stupid. i don't believe in cheating, and i don't believe in divorce, and i don't like breaking up with girls. i a sense i'm doomed.

 

[Cality]

I am right there with you man. I do the same thing, no matter how interested I am in a girl if she doesn't make the first move, I play dead. Even sometimes when they do make the first move I go crazy trying to figure out if it was a move or not.

I hate hate HATE the whole "game" thing and mostly say I refuse to play but I guess I have to. I'll be sooo glad when I am in a serious relationship and don't have to worry about it anymore.

How funny!! I feel so much the same way about this!

 

[Cality]

i think the worst problem for me now is contemplating whether a girl, no matter how great she is. its the whole grass is greener thing... because i don't want to do anything stupid. i don't believe in cheating, and i don't believe in divorce, and i don't like breaking up with girls. i a sense i'm doomed.

I don't believe in cheating :

I don't believe in divorce :

I don't like breaking up with girls That's the hardest part isn't it?


I thought I was completly unable to break up with guys. Lately, I managed to, so now, I am quite proud to be able to get out of a bad relationship by myself! I thought, I would never manage to.

 

[sketcheasy]

when it comes to relationships, i have to be able to exercise thinking and judging. i'm not great at it but it gets better. i use intuition and feeling to help support my decisions, because fortunately for me love requires both a rational mind and mature heart.

 

[Venom]

I am right there with you man. I do the same thing, no matter how interested I am in a girl if she doesn't make the first move, I play dead. Even sometimes when they do make the first move I go crazy trying to figure out if it was a move or not.

I hate hate HATE the whole "game" thing and mostly say I refuse to play but I guess I have to. I'll be sooo glad when I am in a serious relationship and don't have to worry about it anymore.

im one of those "she needs to make the first move, and even then ill just over analyze it" people too haha.


the problem is that most girls dont make the first move or put themselves out there first. so then i end up only "attracting" girls i dont really like.
example: "if they aint blushing, i aint talking". im often only confident to flirt with a girl if im getting: puppy eyes, touching my arm etc, smiles for no reason. The problem is that then i only end up flirting with the "easy ones" who act this way with everyone! its terrible!

and the girls i actually am probably better for...well since i never get the puppy eyes, smiles for no reason, touching my arm etc...well then i never try and flirt with them to begin with! ...which just leads it to the friendzone from the start hahahaha

sometimes i think i should of been on seinfeld. i would of been perfect at those george castanza rants about life being unfair .

 

[Cality]

How old are you, guys?
I think, it changes when you turn 30

 

[tothresevn]

castanza

Yeah, Love that guy! Too funny.

 

[Kasper]

she needs to make the first move, and even then ill just over analyze it

What? Nooo! ENFPs don't make the first move

Me = saddest INTJ ever

 

[CzeCze]

Don't worry ENFPs, you'll flip the switch one of these days and become an extroverted love machine.

Don't worry.

Hahahaahah.

Srsly though, I am the flip opposite but only after making the concerted effort and commitment to getting over the 'paralyzed to make the first move' bump. It took me a good year, honestly more like 2 years to get to the point where I am now. I am very much of the "me likey -- how you doin'?" mindset now. I like to think I'm that way about my life in general and exploring things that appeal to me.

SOOOOOOOOO much (more) fun.