Interesting thread. It got me thinking about how often people tend towards especially predictable responses when faced with a scenario that could invoke fear. For example, some kinds of humor, inspirational sayings, and platitudes when someone is suffering. Language often becomes rather predictable in scenarios of loss or danger.
Toonia's comment is relevant here: We almost always hear this behavior described in metaphor as a blind person.I'm just mildly against those who take it as it is, blindly follow it without questioning if it's going in the right direction to keep serving human race, and the environment that nurtures us.
I struggle to make everything predictable as I don't want any unfortunate surprises. ( My J is 67%) It's coming back to bite me though. I seems that it is all very boring now except for the things of uncertainty- and two things I HATE are uncertainty and waiting for thing.
I have been able to make almost everything predictable, and I'm still not satisfied. On top of that, it drains my energy level from worrying in case something DOES go wrong! I have figured out though that the following just CAN'T be predicted:
1) Getting a Relationship
2) Getting a secure job (Career with benefits)
3) Getting transferred into a new school with a better degree program
So, I guess I'm stuck waiting. The only thing I have found that can pull me away from all of this (in a good way) is an xNFP girlwhom I was interested in, unfortunately, I think she hates me!
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I think the common "(Un)predictability is (un)comfortable" idea doesn't hold much water. So, you feel comfortable in unpredictable situations? That's great. I'm sure you can all tell me about that great time you had when your car unpredictably broke down during a roadtrip. The point is that unpredictability can not simply be equated to comfort, or vice versa. Predictability is only preferable in that it's a reliable way of minimizing potential discomfort, and we all try to minimize potential discomfort -- you say you're a risk taker? But you're never going to risk everything. Basically, what I'm trying to say is: even for you (apparently) free-spirited ENP types, I daresay that you'll find unpredictability comfortable only when there's a good chance it wont't piss you off -- that is, only when it suits your purposes. And I'm pretty sure everyone can do that, which is why this basic "predictability = boring" argument needs to be scrutinized.
So, you feel comfortable in unpredictable situations? That's great. I'm sure you can all tell me about that great time you had when your car unpredictably broke down during a roadtrip.
Yawn. For starters, how did you reach the conclusion that my response was "conditioned reflexes?" How would you describe the "way I reacted to the post"? Lastly, don't you realize that making light of the post/poster you're responding to isn't quite the epitome of constructivity?someone missed the point due to conditioned reflexes heh?
rotf lol
hey, i suggest you watch the movie "12 angry men" (1957). maybe you'll find connectionslol
even the way you react to the post might be similar to how the men responded in the movie![]()
watch and see whether what i guessed was right or not before you answer heh!
Either this link 12 ANGRY MEN
or this link 12 Angry Men
Great movie!
oh my, you made my night![]()
Wasn't sure how to read this. If you were acknowledging the fun we would have breaking down on a roadtrip, awesome. If it was proposed as something terrible, choose a different example. We could probably start a thread for ENPs to talk about awesome breakdown stories.
On the rest of your post and ENPs comments in the thread: I think we should acknowledge that most others like predictability. It isn't boring to everyone. But it doesn't really give us comfort in the same way it does for you. The highest stress scenario for an ENP is scheduled routine and limited possibilities for dynamic change. We understand the system to avoid problems, as opposed to changing it to be predictable. Not that either way is right or wrong, just different type's preferred approach.
I feel blahhh when anything reaches the point of being predictable.
But when I come to think of it, it's a nature of human (you know I'm generalizing) to be afraid of uncertainties. I believe Science was born out of that notion - to minimize variability, and raise the predictability level. Systems, structures, hierarchies, etc. came along to serve that purpose as well. The more mysterious or uncertain things are, the more we want to discover and straighten them out. We are subconsciously attracted to the mysteriousness, while at the same time consciously desire to make the mysterious no more mysterious. Those moments of our own discoveries give us intellectual orgasm. But after thousands of years of civilization, there are not that many mysteries out there to give us that kind of ecstasy. Instead, we get stuck in our own products of those intellectual orgasmsNow we are all in the SOCIETY haha...
"Congratulations you just made the right choice. You are now boxed! Everything is in the reach of your hand, and no more worries about what you cannot control. Please follow our guidelines step by step in the most civilized manner. We guarantee happiness will come your way!” - signed The Society, with alpha of .05 or 95% Confidence Interval
Most of us chase after things that make ourselves so predictable, in the illusion that we’ll find happiness. I don’t know if I should be happy or depressed knowing it.
P.S. About the mysteries, we are now reaching out and trying to "de-mysterize" the outer space. Isn’t it cool heh?![]()
I think the common "(Un)predictability is (un)comfortable" idea doesn't hold much water. So, you feel comfortable in unpredictable situations? That's great. I'm sure you can all tell me about that great time you had when your car unpredictably broke down during a roadtrip. The point is that unpredictability can not simply be equated to comfort, or vice versa. Predictability is only preferable in that it's a reliable way of minimizing potential discomfort, and we all try to minimize potential discomfort -- you say you're a risk taker? But you're never going to risk everything. Basically, what I'm trying to say is: even for you (apparently) free-spirited ENP types, I daresay that you'll find unpredictability comfortable only when there's a good chance it wont't piss you off -- that is, only when it suits your purposes. And I'm pretty sure everyone can do that, which is why this basic "predictability = boring" argument needs to be scrutinized.
Yawn. For starters, how did you reach the conclusion that my response was "conditioned reflexes?" How would you describe the "way I reacted to the post"? Lastly, don't you realize that making light of the post/poster you're responding to isn't quite the epitome of constructivity?
I suppose I'll be blunt: Compare our two posts and I think it'll be easy to see that yours is much more about "conditioned reflexes", and that the way you reacted to my post is much more questionable than vice versa.
And no, I'm not watching anything simply because you're riding some "rotflol, you made my day!" wave that's apparently supposed to make me realize my error without you making any point whatsoever![]()
right there! You started your previous argument with a "conditioned reflex" (sry, i'd just love to use those words instead of "prejudice" lol) against ENPs due to your negative experiences.That's possible (and please note that I haven't called any preference "right" or "wrong"). I suppose what I'm wondering is whether people are really consistent in thinking "the highest stress scenario for an ENP is scheduled routine and limited possibilities for dynamic change." -- to me that looks like a statement (echoed by most ENP descriptions) that needs some reasonable justification. Now you could say something like: "Well it's just my tendency, and I do feel uncomfortable..." and I would ask, "How and why?" and you might direct me to a type description or analysis again. This is the problem I have with MBTI (not necessarily Jung's system) -- it has a lot of confirmation bias going on within it.
On the other hand, I think we should be wary about making statements like "We should probably acknowledge that most others like predictability." -- well that's really an assumption, and serves only to further your own argument in a biased way. Also, regarding the "breakdown stories thread", that's kind of my point: ENPs wouldn't be the only ones who'd post in there, and how are you going to prove that they are even going to be in the majority? and I basically guarantee (out of my ass, no less) you that while there might be awesome breakdown stories, there would also be plenty that weren't as awesome (i.e downright crappy and angering) and those wouldn't be shared.
LoL 'Cuz you started your argument with your argumentative nature without really examined what I was trying to say. Sorry it's just my loving nature made me laugh. Thats all.
Did you just get caught up with what other people's postings without really remembering what the thread starter trying to say? If so you should've quoted them. Without quoting, you directed your "this basic predictability = boring argument needs to be scrutinized" at me. Your bad.
Did I say "(un)predictability is (un)comfortable"? Did I ever put the 2 words in the same sentence throughout the whole thread? You failed right at the beginning to start it with your false pre-assumed thesis with me.
IEE623 said:right there! You started your previous argument with a "conditioned reflex" (sry, i'd just love to use those words instead of "prejudice" lol) against ENPs due to your negative experiences.
IEE623 said:To already have Jung's system integrated in your knowledge, you should've been more open to differences. You approach people with your point of view and ask them to persuade you, instead of approaching people with an inquisitive mind and learn from them.
Have you known about neurology and cognitive functions? Can I say my brain primarily use those neurons in that part of the brain and your brain primarily uses those neurons in the other part of the brain????? Even you can't accept that can you?
It's whole complicated science and you expected those ppl you asked to explain to you "how and why" ????
IEE623 said:It's complicated because it's just hard right at the start using human mind to examine how human mind works. Fortunately not all minds are exactly the same. That's why we need open-minded scientists to spot out differences and study them, instead of scientist that relate differences to neurosis
Read books about all the research and discover a possible explanation to those characteristics of Ne for yourself heh?!
IEE623 said:I think you just preferred to assume whatever others said is "absolute" to them. Nothing we said is absolute (it's our tendency, we're open to variability. oh, did the words "our tendency" just piss you off again?)
To your amusement, we did have "downright crappy and angering" breakdown stories. It came from other riders because we looked like we didn't have a care in the world while they started worrying. It just irritated people somehow. *shrug
I was simply airing my own ideas. There is a reason I didn't quote any of you. The other poster responded to them pretty constructively. You aren't doing the same.
Having a closest friend an ENTP doesn’t make you “not having negative experiences with ENTP”One of my closest friends is an ENTP
I think that's only what you're seeing.
And who are you to tell me about the limits of my acceptance? You don't know anything! I know you're enjoying it, as much as I'm enjoying typing this to you, but please, curb the sensationalism. It doesn't work on me.
Trust me, I know. You might want to read my older posts back when I used to frequent this place, or ask around, instead of going on a Ne overdrive and making wrong assumptions about my knowledge based solely on this single, and apparently abrasive post you've happened to read.
yeah, same to you!I'm done with you, though. Feel free to respond to this, as I'm sure you will -- it's fun!
I need my fast food predictable. Bic Macs 4 life, dawg!
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I feel blahhh when anything reaches the point of being predictable.
But when I come to think of it, it's a nature of human (you know I'm generalizing) to be afraid of uncertainties. I believe Science was born out of that notion - to minimize variability, and raise the predictability level. Systems, structures, hierarchies, etc. came along to serve that purpose as well. The more mysterious or uncertain things are, the more we want to discover and straighten them out. We are subconsciously attracted to the mysteriousness, while at the same time consciously desire to make the mysterious no more mysterious.