Domino
ENFJ In Chains
- Joined
- Nov 5, 2007
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- eNFJ
- Enneagram
- 4w3
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
I don't know. The attraction was so strong between my NT and I that we were never just friends. We know each other pretty well now and I can safely call us the best of friends, but there is still an incredibly strong attraction despite the power struggles of the early stages of the relationship.
That's me and any NT that I ever got serious with. Immediate pyrotechnics, internal, external, et al. That, to me, goes way beyond mere sexual pull. I have to get hit squarely on several whiplash levels to take me down that hard in the first place. I can just tell when something ISN'T going to work, and it loses flash within seconds. The real white-hot attractions have always been an instinctive pull toward someone that WILL work. Otherwise, it's a futile effort.