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Just a rant about various unimportant things.

WobblyStilettos

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Feb 15, 2008
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331
MBTI Type
INFP
I will not plan my life to fit around yours.

You don't need to try and prove yourself to me in any way, I already think you're better than me.

No, I will not try and prove myself to you.

I know what I can and cannot do. Listen to me for once. You are always either patronising me or expecting far too much of me.

I can't do everything. I'm only human.

I'm tougher than you give me credit for.

I'm far more fragile than I think you will ever realise.

Don't you dare try and pin this on me. I will not take the blame.

I don't want you to solve all my little problems and keep me safe in a nice little fairytale castle. I was only ever after a hug, I just needed to know everything would be ok.

I needed you.

I don't want this.

I can't cope if everything carries on like this.

I'm not what I seem.

Oh crap. I've really screwed up now. Again.

I miss you.

(not all about the same person(s), if you were wondering)
 

TheLastMohican

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Mar 12, 2008
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328
MBTI Type
ENTJ
(not all about the same person(s), if you were wondering)

It was getting a bit strange until I got to this. ;)

You don't need to try and prove yourself to me in any way, I already think you're better than me.

No, I will not try and prove myself to you.

That could be a sign that you very well-adjusted and secure...depending on the reasons. (Not so much the part about assuming that everyone is better than you.)
I think ideally we should all want to prove ourselves to ourselves, and not feel so pressured to convince others. In that context, we know best (provided we are reasonably introspective; some people thrive on external reassurances). Of course this relates back to not expecting exactly that "proof" from others.
 

WobblyStilettos

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INFP
It was getting a bit strange until I got to this.
I thought it would probably be a good idea to add it in xD

That could be a sign that you very well-adjusted and secure...depending on the reasons. (Not so much the part about assuming that everyone is better than you.)
I think ideally we should all want to prove ourselves to ourselves, and not feel so pressured to convince others. In that context, we know best (provided we are reasonably introspective; some people thrive on external reassurances). Of course this relates back to not expecting exactly that "proof" from others.

The person who didn't need to prove themselves to me was someone who I believe took something I said to mean that I thought she wasn't overly bright and maybe even macked ambition, when that wasn't what I meant at all (which I pointed out to her) because I could tell from just talking to her for a little while that actually she was pretty smart, not to mention very sweet and patient and an all-round good person. The bit about me not proving myself to other people... there are a couple of people who I have little or no respect for who seem to enjoy almost testing me with little things that they say, to see if I will jump through their hoops or if I would trip up. I don't really feel like playing along.
 

Chimerical

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INTJ
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amusing.
I get the feeling most of them are ENTJ's.
 
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