[MBTI General] ISTJ-ENFP Relationship Starter (Help!)

[Wild horses]

You keep telling yourself that Costrin I know it makes you feel better to kid yourself that you're using all the love for hate



Cutie cute!

 

[d@v3]

Ha, sounds good in theory. Unfortunately most don't get passed step 2 as they fall into their own trap

Nevermind! I take it back! no wubbies... no hugs! I was kidding!

 

[Amargith]

Alright, well, WH, I expect you to round up these crazy T's and I'll be back in the morning. Cya ppl

 

[Costrin]

Ha, sounds good in theory. Unfortunately most don't get passed step 2 as they fall into their own trap

You just said most. That was a mistake. Now I'm motivated to do it just because most people can't.

A battle of wills!

 

[Lady_X]

As a P, I claim that I am immune to your manipulation!

tell me about it...it's FASCINATING.

 

[Costrin]

tell me about it...it's FASCINATING.

No.

 

[Lady_X]

haha...i didn't really care just thought it would help me sleep.

 

[Costrin]

haha...i didn't really care just thought it would help me sleep.

Liar!

 

[Lady_X]

 

[raz]

I'm being bombarded by fluffiness? Wow. This thread got going today.

I'm testing out a possible ENFP in one of my classes. She seems to take my airhead comments to her in stride, which is somewhat interesting. She tried proving me wrong in the class, and I think she was surprised when I admitted being wrong.

Back to daydreaming about the ESFJ.

 

[d@v3]

I'm being bombarded by fluffiness? Wow. This thread got going today.

I'm testing out a possible ENFP in one of my classes. She seems to take my airhead comments to her in stride, which is somewhat interesting. She tried proving me wrong in the class, and I think she was surprised when I admitted being wrong.

Back to daydreaming about the ESFJ.

I think ENFP's love it when you are willing to admit you are wrong. It shows you can humble yourself. Keep at it Raz, what can that ESFJ not like about you? You seem pretty cool to me!

 

[raz]

Uh-huh. The ESFJ actually admitted to me that she wants to be a soccer mom.

 

[Lady_X]

you like that though, right?

 

[d@v3]

Uh-huh. The ESFJ actually admitted to me that she wants to be a soccer mom.

Dude, if she's comfortable enough to talk about being a mom around you. And she KNOWS you like her. I'd say that is a VERY good sign. How did you pull that off? You sly dog Raz! haha


And what do you mean Erin? Why would he like that?

 

[raz]

We were talking about how we would want to treat our kids and naturally because of MBTI, I said I'd want my kids to feel understood. She was talking about how she would want to be there for her kids, and I asked her if she'd be a soccer mom, she said, "I totally want to be a soccer mom." So, I was sending her texts today joking about it and she really liked it.

 

[Lady_X]

i would think an istj would like that, that's all.

 

[raz]

I don't know. I'm not for it, but I'm not against it. It'd be someone's choice. It's not like, OMG, I want a wife that wants to stay at home....oh crap, that's just like my mother.

Erm....

 

[d@v3]

I don't know. I'm not for it, but I'm not against it. It'd be someone's choice. It's not like, OMG, I want a wife that wants to stay at home....oh crap, that's just like my mother.

Erm....

lol I agree with raz. It really doesn't matter to me. The extra income would be nice though!.... but as long as SHE is happy... that is all that would matter to me.

 

[Lady_X]

 

[raz]

My mother's a stay at home mom. She hasn't been a "soccer mom" for about 20 years, though. It's just scary though when I see my interaction with the ESFJ resemble the ESFJ-INTJ interaction with my parents.