gabrielleshhh
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This is really weird to write down.
Me and my ISFJ have known each other since June. We work together, and he is usually very quiet. When he sees me, he smiles, and we are usually just kind of staring at each other and smiling. We used to hang out a lot over the summer, because he also lives down the street from me. Nowadays, we don't hang out at all. Sometimes at work he will hold my hands and we just kind of smile at each other. UGH it's so awkward, but I like it though, haha.
We almost slept together once, but it was under drunk circumstances and my sister scooped me away. I am having a birthday in December, and I invited him a couple of days ago. He seemed extremely thrilled. That day, he wanted to talk to me a lot, and he seemed to almost have burst out of his shell. He came to my station over and over that day, and according to my other coworkers (one of which is my sister) he was running around telling everyone I had invited him. He told me that he was so excited and that I made his day. The next day, he barely talked to me, lol. He can be confusing.
I obviously don't know him that well, but because of how ridiculously socially inept I am, I don't really now how to get to know him. Because I am really close to a group of girls I work with, a lot of people already know that I'm interested in him. It went through the grapevine or something. I feel like that could either be a good or a bad thing.
Im basically looking for these things:
Me and my ISFJ have known each other since June. We work together, and he is usually very quiet. When he sees me, he smiles, and we are usually just kind of staring at each other and smiling. We used to hang out a lot over the summer, because he also lives down the street from me. Nowadays, we don't hang out at all. Sometimes at work he will hold my hands and we just kind of smile at each other. UGH it's so awkward, but I like it though, haha.
We almost slept together once, but it was under drunk circumstances and my sister scooped me away. I am having a birthday in December, and I invited him a couple of days ago. He seemed extremely thrilled. That day, he wanted to talk to me a lot, and he seemed to almost have burst out of his shell. He came to my station over and over that day, and according to my other coworkers (one of which is my sister) he was running around telling everyone I had invited him. He told me that he was so excited and that I made his day. The next day, he barely talked to me, lol. He can be confusing.
I obviously don't know him that well, but because of how ridiculously socially inept I am, I don't really now how to get to know him. Because I am really close to a group of girls I work with, a lot of people already know that I'm interested in him. It went through the grapevine or something. I feel like that could either be a good or a bad thing.
Im basically looking for these things:
- How to initiate conversation with an ISFJ (or someone's you like in general)
- How to let an ISFJ know you like them without freaking them out or saying it in a really overt way, I don't know
- How to get close to an ISFJ