placebo
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Sorry, I didn't want to use the word in the title, but you know what I'm talking about and I will be saying it now in the following rant/post.
I've been called a 'bitch' as well as 'mean' countless times by (so-called) friends and family. Ouch. I've also been called a 'moody bitch' a couple times.
I hate being called a bitch and I hate feeling like one, but most of the time I feel like I'm just 'being myself'. So what does that mean?
Are these just unhealthy or immature traits of a person in general or is it common to see INFPs as sort of 'bitchy'? I had a male INFP friend who some people called 'cocky' and he didn't think he was until people insisted he was. Why are INFPs sort of stereotyped as really nice and sweet or whatever when there are some that act like this?
I don't know if I'm wording any of this the way I want to, but what I kind of want from this is maybe an explanation as to why I behave like this. I'm really sensitive as it is, so why do I act 'insensitively' towards others so often? And how do I stop being a bitch!?
I've been called a 'bitch' as well as 'mean' countless times by (so-called) friends and family. Ouch. I've also been called a 'moody bitch' a couple times.
I hate being called a bitch and I hate feeling like one, but most of the time I feel like I'm just 'being myself'. So what does that mean?
Are these just unhealthy or immature traits of a person in general or is it common to see INFPs as sort of 'bitchy'? I had a male INFP friend who some people called 'cocky' and he didn't think he was until people insisted he was. Why are INFPs sort of stereotyped as really nice and sweet or whatever when there are some that act like this?
I don't know if I'm wording any of this the way I want to, but what I kind of want from this is maybe an explanation as to why I behave like this. I'm really sensitive as it is, so why do I act 'insensitively' towards others so often? And how do I stop being a bitch!?