I have an ENFP female friend that is having a terrible issue with romantic relationships. I don't know, there is some duality in her mind that is kind of stressing her out, she asks for my help, but I don't see how I can help her effectively...
Well the problem is: she wants to have a serious long-term relationship, but her relationships don't last more than one month. In the past it didn't last for her conscious fault, she started to destroy her relationship and then breaking up, with a heavy "grass is greener" attitude towards other guys. But now she changed her attitude and tries to mantain a good relationship and make them "longer" with the guys she dates, but she ends breaking up early the same way... She is annoyed by it, she even "apologized" (?) for me and my boyfriend saying she was sorry for dating so many guys and thanking for our patience with her all this time. She wants to have long, serious relationships now, but she ends up attracting psychologically unstable guys that ruins her emotional life. Firstly the guy is "the love of her life" then all the things turns out to be a nightmare.
How can I help her with this? It's being hard for me seeing her like this and without know how to counsel her effectively...
Well the problem is: she wants to have a serious long-term relationship, but her relationships don't last more than one month. In the past it didn't last for her conscious fault, she started to destroy her relationship and then breaking up, with a heavy "grass is greener" attitude towards other guys. But now she changed her attitude and tries to mantain a good relationship and make them "longer" with the guys she dates, but she ends breaking up early the same way... She is annoyed by it, she even "apologized" (?) for me and my boyfriend saying she was sorry for dating so many guys and thanking for our patience with her all this time. She wants to have long, serious relationships now, but she ends up attracting psychologically unstable guys that ruins her emotional life. Firstly the guy is "the love of her life" then all the things turns out to be a nightmare.
How can I help her with this? It's being hard for me seeing her like this and without know how to counsel her effectively...
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