[INTJ] Hate an INTJ? Tell us why!

[Amargith]

Nothing pleases me more than Europeans saying "dude"...

Sweet...

 

[angell_m]

Nothing pleases me more than Europeans saying "dude"...

Prepare yourself.

 

[WhatsInAName]

I'll show you fluffy.
You know whats right and wrong but don't care which side you act upon. Some of you guys like to act on the wrong side just for attention or for your own selfishness.

Ooo... that stings. So true... Ouch.

 

[WhatsInAName]

Back to topic: you'd never guess from first appearances, but INTJs can be extremely hypersensitive at times and will blow off a gasket over any little thing. And by hypersensitive I don't mean in the cute cuddly manner either.

Yes, I think that it is due to the fact that we (those with the INTJ type) are prone to get too serious about the meaning of things and 'carry' it around with us. When under stress, we obsess over things, become desparate to 'make it right'. When we can't do that, start counting the body bags....

 

[WhatsInAName]

What do you mean, not in a cute and cuddly manner? It's very adorable!

Gawd I hate it when people know how to push my buttons. I mean, COME ON, if you just READ that, spent a LITTLE time doing a LITTLE research, then that's all I'd really care about -- even if you don't get it -- it's fine, just show that you care, I mean, arggghh, why are you laughing? WTF? It's not funny. These are my 'feelings', damn it. And... he's off....

 

[SomeRandomGuy18]

He's a hypocrite and thinks I'm a "prick"

 

[Idontcare]

I have a friend who is an INTJ. He is a just slightly (very) socially handicapped but he is getting better at least. hah. He is a pretty cool guy, but most people think he is weird and I dont think he has any idea that people view him that way.

 

[Amargith]

Gawd I hate it when people know how to push my buttons. I mean, COME ON, if you just READ that, spent a LITTLE time doing a LITTLE research, then that's all I'd really care about -- even if you don't get it -- it's fine, just show that you care, I mean, arggghh, why are you laughing? WTF? It's not funny. These are my 'feelings', damn it. And... he's off....

Not all of us are as skilled as you at figuring out where to start as the project or new material can seem quite daunting.. For that matter..how can you research something if you dont' even know what you're looking for yet? Somehow, you boy instinctively know where to start or how to flesh out where to start...not all of us are that good

And it's funny becoz you get fussy over the silliest things..that pole up your ass causes you at times quite a bit of unnecessary frustration

 

[Thinkaboutit]

I've noticed that INTJs are more emo than they initially appear to be. I definitely can see in quite a few of them that they have Fi, but I'm more with Satine in it being "adorable" that these uber-logical people also have this inner squishy.

Of course the only real problem with an INTJ doing this is if they don't realize they're being emotional and want to claim they're being objective or logical. OMFG that's annoying.

I must admit I never show emotion in tense or sad situations, however, I think there must be some bottling up going on. Sometimes when I see an emotional commercial I will "feel" the tears about to come. That's when I slap myself and say, "WTF it's a stupid commercial" and immediately snap out of it.

Sad or extremely inspiring movies (Rudy) can be hard though, but even still I'm better than most.

Oh yeah! We are always being logical! Any Fi you see has been thoroughly checked for logical fallacies and defects. Otherwise feelings are useless and not allowed!!!

 

[Esoteric Wench]

Yay!!!

INTJs are

- Cold
- Insensible
- Bad boyz/gurlz
- Meanie weanies
- Nerds
- Antisocial
- Clean freaks
- Grammar nazis
- Too serious
- No sense of humor
- No emotions
- Ugly ^_^
- Not good at sports
- Rejects
- They're obsessed with their world domination plans
- Wich will never happend
- They don't like my chocolate cookies
- Maybe because I never made chocolate cookies... but they didn't teach me how!!
- They're too dark
- Unrespectful
- Cocky
- Arrogant
- Narcissitissiticisic (no clue how to spell)
- They are... uh!!! Bad!

yay

But I love all these aspects of INTJ-ness. <Sigh.>

 

[Thinkaboutit]

Yay!!!

INTJs are

- Cold
- Insensible
- Bad boyz/gurlz
- Meanie weanies
- Nerds
- Antisocial
- Clean freaks
- Grammar nazis
- Too serious
- No sense of humor
- No emotions
- Ugly ^_^
- Not good at sports
- Rejects
- They're obsessed with their world domination plans
- Wich Which will never happend
- They don't like my chocolate cookies
- Maybe because I never made chocolate cookies... but they didn't teach me how!!
- They're too dark
- Unrespectful Disrespectful
- Cocky
- Arrogant
- Narcissitissiticisic (no clue how to spell) It's narcissistic
- They are... uh!!! Bad!

yay

I only make my bed when people may be coming over, and I'm funny you just don't get it.
Also an INTJ can be great at sports; I dont know where that came from.

The rest of these compliments are spot on! Muchas gracias

 

[DJAchtundvierzig]

I have to agree, you guys have alot of humor. Pretty much everything you say can be interpreted as funny.

 

[EffEmDoubleyou]

I have to agree, you guys have alot of humor. Pretty much everything you say can be interpreted as funny.

Haha, unintentionally anyway. 99% of NTs that think they're funny in spite of the fact that one else gets their humor aren't funny...at all. Lots of them don't know the difference between shocking and funny.

 

[Thalassa]

I have to agree, you guys have alot of humor. Pretty much everything you say can be interpreted as funny.

Eh...some INTJs are funny. Many are witty if not full-on funny. Others are incredibly dry and boring.

Oh yeah! We are always being logical! Any Fi you see has been thoroughly checked for logical fallacies and defects. Otherwise feelings are useless and not allowed!!!

I suppose this is a case of an INTJ being funny, because it's patently false. I think the problem lies in the NTJ assumption that you are being logical, even when you aren't...and in some circumstances that could not only be annoying, but even dangerous. I've encountered a couple of NTJs (ENTJs not just INTJs) who were being ridiculously biased (Fi) but insisted they were being logical, even if it otherwise seemed to others that the person had taken four hits of acid. That's Ni for you. Never forget that you guys are made of more than just Te...

I like many things about most INTJs I encounter, though, I really do. I swear.

 

[coconut]

I only make my bed when people may be coming over,

Why not just close the bedroom door?

 

[coconut]

Who says they're accurately typed? I think the point is that some ISTJs are typing themselves as INTJ.

But, think about it -- ISTJ's are the largest percentage of people in the real world, yet they don't have their own forum (that I know of). And, if many INTJ's are actually mistyped ISTJ's, then even the few who are posting online aren't clearly ISTJ enough to get their type correct.

I don't see a plethora of self-proclaimed INTJ's all over the internet/forums, but if even half of the ones I see are really ISTJ's, then it still doesn't reflect the majority that exist in the real world. Don't you find that interesting, if not odd?

 

[Thalassa]

But, think about it -- ISTJ's are the largest percentage of people in the real world, yet they don't have their own forum (that I know of). And, if many INTJ's are actually mistyped ISTJ's, then even the few who are posting online aren't clearly ISTJ enough to get their type correct.

I don't see a plethora of self-proclaimed INTJ's all over the internet/forums, but if even half of the ones I see are really ISTJ's, then it still doesn't reflect the majority that exist in the real world. Don't you find that interesting, if not odd?

I'm not clear on whether or not you're defensive that you might be accused of being a fake INTJ, or if you're insisting that INTJs really are a boring bunch of people, after all.

 

[Moonstone3]

I'm not clear on whether or not you're defensive that you might be accused of being a fake INTJ, or if you're insisting that INTJs really are a boring bunch of people, after all.

+5

 

[coconut]

I'm not clear on whether or not you're defensive that you might be accused of being a fake INTJ, or if you're insisting that INTJs really are a boring bunch of people, after all.

Neither one. I'm commenting about the disproportionate lack of ISTJ's on MBTI forums vs. the large number there are in real life. Even if they're there, but, as you said, disguising themselves as INTJ's because they're mistyped, it's still a pretty small number when you consider how large a percentage of the population is ISTJ.

 

[StrawMan]

Why not just close the bedroom door?

It's not enough, because I've heard that INTJs usually end up in bed with people that come over.