Things people have told me about myself and how I come off, with their estimated type.
INFP: (Naddoo this is for you!)
She talks a lot but in a good way. [LOLOLOLOL]
Moody, shy, IXFJ:
When I talk to you I think I'm high. You are so intense and into what I'm saying and looking at me and nodding at what I say, I feel like when I'm high and reality gets hyper-real.
You're so bizarre! You're always cheery and super energetic ALL THE TIME.
XSFJ:
You're so cute! You're [one of the] cutest people I know! (for the quirky faces and postures and voices I have)
You're such a pain in the ass, I love it! (for the smack talking I do and friendly ribbing with people)
Super shy INFX:
My first impression of you was that you were really friendly and a 'go getter'.
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I feel for the female doctor you mentioned Angry and ENFX and possibly ENTP females for being "too much".
That's been a constant pebble in my shoe, feeling I have to tone myself down to match other people. Especially if I feel the others are dragging me down with their dullness, conformity, timidity, and general lameness etc. Yeah, I said it, and with all the grace of a 12 year old.
Then again, I also hold myself back with my own reservations and fears.
But ENFX gotta be full on 100%, cramping on style is not good for our souls! It's not even like we have ulterior motives (when we're healthy and mature) -- I honestly just want people to be right with the world and be free to be themselves, I like people to be happy and to be with the world. Seriosuly what's so wrong with that?
I used to get A LOT of shit and bullying and unkind comments and treatment from both children and adults as I was growing up for being full on me, or doing my damndest to try and not be knocked down, and I am OUTRAGED at those people [collectively] now that they thought they had the right to deprive me of my basic human right to be me and live a happy life. Who do their lame asses think they are???
I think if you are ENFX, and have this strong ego and sense of 'moral imperative/divine justice' (maybe moreso if you are ENFP than ENFJ? that everyone has the right to be themselves and flourish and contribute to the world unfettered), there is a BRAZEN almost flippant or sub/consciously 'fuck you I'm gonna be me' current buzzing somewhere in the baseline of all the warm fuzzies that make us up. I think that can also contribute to us seeming 'intense' or coming on strong?
But yeah, now that I'm a happier, healthier, more self-confident ENFP female adult, people around me pretty much acknowledge across the board that I'm super high energy, extraverted, friendly, social, and have a random friendly demeanor.
BTW, somewhat related, I also have many less problems with people "not liking me" compared to my XXTJ or INTP female friends. On the flip, they also tend to dislike a lot more people than me. So you give what you get, you get what you give, and perception is a two way steet. It's a balance.
In general, I find that I like most people I meet and treat them with at least a formal low baseline of extroversion and friendliness and have problems with very few people and in return, people generally have a positive impression of me.