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- so/sx
Nico got to it before me, all it really takes to manipulate is figuring out which levers to push to get a response. You and I feel people out with our Pe/Fi and figure it out on the fly, but an IxxJ could easily use their Pi database to observe and test.
I imagine he oscillates between feeling lonely and seeking attention, freaking out because he realizes he's let you in far enough that he could really get hurt, and then pushing away hard. He probably could use some of the unconditional positive regard that many counselors have to offer.
You should start a user group for Sx doms titled CPoFs. You are not alone.
I imagine he oscillates between feeling lonely and seeking attention, freaking out because he realizes he's let you in far enough that he could really get hurt, and then pushing away hard. He probably could use some of the unconditional positive regard that many counselors have to offer.
Marmotini said:I am apparently one codependent piece of fuck.
You should start a user group for Sx doms titled CPoFs. You are not alone.