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Does it really matter that much?

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So apparently I am guilty of being the last one to use the liquid soap and not noticing that it was almost empty and not refilling it, which is a serious crime apparently.

Good grief, is anyone PERFECT all of the time and never miss a detail like this?

I can remember all these details a good deal of the time and it is never noticed, never appreciated but let me slip once and it is unforgivable.

I cannot deal with all of these details, I am not a detail person. I am so tired of being expected to be a detail person. ugh. I mean no matter how hard I try, I always, always slip up sooner or later.
 

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Here in Looseyana, you can get ten years for that, missy. :-D
 

alcea rosea

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Does it really matter that much?

No, it doesn't.

Details are not THAT important. ;)
 

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I think when people fly off the handle about the little things, it's usually because they think that the other person is just expecting them to pick up after them. I think you should remind him that you try to remember to do things like that, but that he's going to have to cut you some slack, b/c it's not always going to naturally be on your radar.

It does drive me nuts when people are so nitpicky about small things. If it bothers them so bad, they should just do it themselves.
 

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He's going through a LOT of stress and I think he is just looking for excuses to nitpick to release it. He started saying that well he wasn't sure if I was the last person to use the soap when he thought about it again and I said that really isn't the point!
 
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