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[INTP] Decision making?

devilsradio

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May 16, 2016
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Do you usually know what the best decision is but still make the 'less logical' one well aware of it? I know I do with certain things. I think it might be out of laziness and just being kind of impulsive in general.


For example my mom would buy food and there would be an unopened bag/pack of something and I'll feel like eating some but knowing if she was gonna use it for something I might get in trouble for opening it then I think about calling her at work to ask so I can save myself the trouble but I get too lazy to do that lol. It either results in her being pissed off if she actually was saving it for something or her not caring/noticing.
 

Virtual ghost

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Yes, in most cases this was just in order to make somone happy or none unhappy. I grew up surrounded with feelers and therefore I realized that it is perhaps bettter no to alienate myself too much instead of having perfect logical/structured decision all the time, even if this was "braking my heart".
 

IndigoViolet11

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Apr 28, 2016
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INFJ
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1w9
Yes I do. But to me, there I see possibilities of like, all decisions I can make, then choose the best one that fits. In terms of people, I try to go for the one that results in the least conflict. But heck, if its food, then sometimes I wanted to eat them too :D :wubbie:

People are about feelings. I try to look at it that way. But if I do open foods without permission, not something my parents like neither. If its open and I eat too much of it, hm, :unsure: . If theres food I can eat a lot lol.
 

jfh06dd

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May 26, 2016
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INTP
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5w9
Yeah I tend to overthink alot too but as I have gotten older and worked for a while I believe I have become more comfortable being assertive.
 

aliem

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Jul 22, 2016
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INTP
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I actually go to lengths to NOT make a decision at all. I hate making decisions. I'm very indecisive.
 
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