Chimerical
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- Joined
- Apr 30, 2008
- Messages
- 898
- MBTI Type
- INTJ
- Enneagram
- 1w5
It was an interesting day. I went to commons grounds to meet this girl I cold readed that day. I gave her the description of an INTJ and she asked how I knew. I answered honestly [I have made a promise to not lie, but that doesn't mean I have to reveal everything]. I told her I looked at the picture she showed me. She was a little shocked and asked how it worked, she was doing a stereotypical INTJ thing I guess.
I showed up late because something happened. She wasn't there, but I was going to make the best of the situation.
I began talking to nick and todd just bullshiting and then Andy comes out of no where and wants me to cure his boredom. He complains about being bored bored bored. I wasn't. He keeps talking and talking about it and I tell him, if he's bored, to find something to do. But he never took an initiative to do so. He just remained. Sad.
So A girl I know comes through. I jump out of my seat and give her a hug and sit down and play cards with her. She asks about the MBTI and I show her the test on typelogic.com. She's an ExFP. Andy comes over, still bored. So we teach him rummy. But he's still bored.
Then more people come over to my table and I decided to play "the question game." because I wanted andy to stop complaining about being bored and start interacting with the current group. All it is, is dealing out all the cards of a deck face down, then taking turns asking questions. Everyone flips a card and whoever has the highest one has to answer but also has the option to make everyone else answer.
This makes it easier and more relaxing when it's a game. Usually everyone answers anyway and a conversation usually starts and the game keeps getting interupted till it eventually ends with people just telling fun stories and talking about crazy shit. Theorectially, you don't actually need the cards to accomplish the purpose of this game, but it makes things a lot easier when they're there.
After doing this for a while, a group of people I know only half of come through. There's an INTJ girl I spotted as she came in and an ENFP. I thought both were cute, but more so the INTJ. So I talk to that group of people and mention the game and we end up playing. I get to know everyone there and later find out the ENFP was there with her boyfriend and the INTJ had one. While I was outside having a semi-personal conversation Andy comes out and starts talking, so my conversation ends. Andy is someone I need to work on, he's too socially dependant, and not very socially intelligent.
Eventually Courtney comes through with a guy named Wesley. I wanted to know who the hell he was to her, I had slept with her before and I still liked her. I never directly ask or do anything to show I'm trying to pry out the imformation. We end up playing cards and she meets my older brother and evetually it becomes clear he's her boyfriend. So I try to hide my emotions and pretentend not to care. It's never directly stated.
Alot of things mentioned in the conversation gave me room to suptly announce I slept with her, but I didn't care to. She mentioned having a penis, talked about tattoos [even asked my opinion about them], and various other things where it left me room to mention it without mentioning it and not seem like an asshole.
at the end of the day when I was leaving a group of girl at the front asked who I was and tried to stop me from leaving, I was semi-confused as to why because I was just doing things naturally as I felt like doing things all day without some grand agenda. Then it dawned on me, social proof.
From the outsiders perspective I'm pretty awesome and I know everyone and everyone seems to like me. They saw a guy who was talking to a few friends, got up to talk to another friend, went back to the first group of friends, had people following him the whole time. Made new friends and provided them with fun and entertainment, introduced 6 people to 6 other people, etc. etc. etc.. When I thought about that, I reallized why they would want to get to know me. But I was tired so I went home.
I showed up late because something happened. She wasn't there, but I was going to make the best of the situation.
I began talking to nick and todd just bullshiting and then Andy comes out of no where and wants me to cure his boredom. He complains about being bored bored bored. I wasn't. He keeps talking and talking about it and I tell him, if he's bored, to find something to do. But he never took an initiative to do so. He just remained. Sad.
So A girl I know comes through. I jump out of my seat and give her a hug and sit down and play cards with her. She asks about the MBTI and I show her the test on typelogic.com. She's an ExFP. Andy comes over, still bored. So we teach him rummy. But he's still bored.
Then more people come over to my table and I decided to play "the question game." because I wanted andy to stop complaining about being bored and start interacting with the current group. All it is, is dealing out all the cards of a deck face down, then taking turns asking questions. Everyone flips a card and whoever has the highest one has to answer but also has the option to make everyone else answer.
This makes it easier and more relaxing when it's a game. Usually everyone answers anyway and a conversation usually starts and the game keeps getting interupted till it eventually ends with people just telling fun stories and talking about crazy shit. Theorectially, you don't actually need the cards to accomplish the purpose of this game, but it makes things a lot easier when they're there.
After doing this for a while, a group of people I know only half of come through. There's an INTJ girl I spotted as she came in and an ENFP. I thought both were cute, but more so the INTJ. So I talk to that group of people and mention the game and we end up playing. I get to know everyone there and later find out the ENFP was there with her boyfriend and the INTJ had one. While I was outside having a semi-personal conversation Andy comes out and starts talking, so my conversation ends. Andy is someone I need to work on, he's too socially dependant, and not very socially intelligent.
Eventually Courtney comes through with a guy named Wesley. I wanted to know who the hell he was to her, I had slept with her before and I still liked her. I never directly ask or do anything to show I'm trying to pry out the imformation. We end up playing cards and she meets my older brother and evetually it becomes clear he's her boyfriend. So I try to hide my emotions and pretentend not to care. It's never directly stated.
Alot of things mentioned in the conversation gave me room to suptly announce I slept with her, but I didn't care to. She mentioned having a penis, talked about tattoos [even asked my opinion about them], and various other things where it left me room to mention it without mentioning it and not seem like an asshole.
at the end of the day when I was leaving a group of girl at the front asked who I was and tried to stop me from leaving, I was semi-confused as to why because I was just doing things naturally as I felt like doing things all day without some grand agenda. Then it dawned on me, social proof.
From the outsiders perspective I'm pretty awesome and I know everyone and everyone seems to like me. They saw a guy who was talking to a few friends, got up to talk to another friend, went back to the first group of friends, had people following him the whole time. Made new friends and provided them with fun and entertainment, introduced 6 people to 6 other people, etc. etc. etc.. When I thought about that, I reallized why they would want to get to know me. But I was tired so I went home.
