Amargith
Hotel California
- Joined
- Nov 5, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 4dw
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
Though Ive met many an STP, INTP, and yes..even an ENTP who I get on with and consider my friend, I wonder..Does friendship for you with an NFP require you to suspend your judgement of their values?
What I mean is, do you, for the sake of liking them and being their friend, 'accept' that they are, for lack of a better term, irrational/crazy according to your pov on the world? Is that part of them something you stash away coz you do not know what to do with it? Or does it actually contribute value in some way to your own pov of the world somehow?
In other words, is it like a mysterious black box you cannot access and just ignore its presence, or does it actually turn into a treasury chest at times?
And do you feel that your Ti is valued by them? Or do they approach your Ti with that same mystery black box effect and glance over it, in favour of just enjoying the friendship and not understanding what makes you tick?
For that matter...do you like the black-box effect they have on you (if that is the case)?
Curious minds want to know...
What I mean is, do you, for the sake of liking them and being their friend, 'accept' that they are, for lack of a better term, irrational/crazy according to your pov on the world? Is that part of them something you stash away coz you do not know what to do with it? Or does it actually contribute value in some way to your own pov of the world somehow?
In other words, is it like a mysterious black box you cannot access and just ignore its presence, or does it actually turn into a treasury chest at times?
And do you feel that your Ti is valued by them? Or do they approach your Ti with that same mystery black box effect and glance over it, in favour of just enjoying the friendship and not understanding what makes you tick?
For that matter...do you like the black-box effect they have on you (if that is the case)?
Curious minds want to know...